Im bisexual with a PREFERENCE for women. I really wish more women would be more aggressive as far as approaching me AND in the bedroom. How can i get this to happen?
2007-03-23 10:48:52 · 13 answers · asked by SoOoFem 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Men have been asking this question since the dawn of civilization. If you find out I sure hope you let us know.
Actually, sorry, but the hilarious part is, that you're a woman asking this question. Why don't YOU be as sexually aggressive as a man, and start doing the appraching yourself? There's your answer.
2007-03-23 10:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by T.Wang! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Women generally have more self-control than men. Even if they want it, many don't want to do it because they are afraid of themselves(becoming a slut). Actually, women are more aggressive than they admit and men are less aggressive than they admit. It's just the stereotypes that make men and women this way. Everyone is different, but I'll tell you to try and occasionally switch places with your partner. You're aggressive at one time and she's aggressive another time. You'll probably get bored if you don't.
2007-03-23 12:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might be around the wrong women. I know some very sexually aggressive women, fem AND tomboyish. It just depends on the woman. Or maybe u intimidate them a little....you'll find the right match. You seem to know what u want & not afraid to voice it.
2007-03-23 10:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are just not meeting the right women. I am way more aggressive than my bf. Seriously, I'm almost dominating, when I want it, I want it NOW, there's no such thing as waiting until later or tomorrow. Try meeting different kinds of people, not everyone is the same, you'll meet someone that'll show you who's boss, lol.
2007-03-23 11:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same reason as men...everyone is terrified of the word "NO." IF you change your style just ever so slightly, you will be a big hit...just smile at everyone, let them think you are approachable, let them think they will NOT get a "no," and you will be amazed at the difference in your life. Trust me, no one is going to approach an aloof person in a bar, or anywhere else, for that matter. The world belongs to those who say "yes." So say Yes with your eyes....you don't have to follow through with it, but say Yes with your eyes. Been there, went through the same thing, got a piece of advice from someone who would watch me in bars...I asked them, "Why don't guys cruise me." He answered, "You have you head in the air a mile high, everyone knows you are going to say "No," so they don't try." I immediatley changed my act, and NEVER bought myself another beer in a bar...they were lined up in front of me. Try it, you'll like it!
2007-03-23 10:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Three reasons:
1) testosterone- it makes you more aggressive
2) women are taught that it isn't femine to be aggressive. We're taught to be chased and chaste.
3) or maybe it's the fear of rejection. I've been there plenty of times.
2007-03-23 15:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Xena_fire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are naturally more aggressive than women...
If you want women to be more agressive in bed or anywhere show her your agressive side...It'll bring out the inner "Freak" [as they say] in her and make her feel more comfortable with being as agressive as you...[lol]
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Chelsea
2007-03-23 11:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by *CHELSEA* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because we cant hump people we dont have ***** so thats why guys are more aggressive they got a big stick and we got a hole so we get humped and they get aggressive
2007-03-23 11:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am extremely aggressive. And I'm sorry you didn't like discussing marmalade! :(
2007-03-23 10:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by Tall Chicky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to Atlanta.
2007-03-23 11:34:55 · answer #10 · answered by Vanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋