she think if she is very happy with me than we can make love maybe 3 times a week inother to keep our relationshep going
2007-03-23 10:29:30 · 12 answers · asked by Nguw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should have had this talk together BEFORE you got married. If the frequency of sexual activity bother's you then maybe you aren't compatible.
2007-03-23 10:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. The two of you have differing libidos/sex drives. This is a common factor between couples and easily handled by negociation and compromise.
2. It's all relative. So MANY 35 year old guys would KILL to have sex three times a week dude!
3. This really is not about SEX. This is about CONTROL. Lighten up. It's just sex.
2007-03-23 17:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you ask before you married her or have a trial marriage before you committed yourself. If it's 3 times a week or 7 times a week then compromise, she don't want it constantly , have ever been to the zoo and watch those monkeys. They are constantly every time they hop off they hop back on another one. You need to let her have a break and go to bed some nights without hopping on the minute she hits the bed. Some night let her go to bed in piece without you worrying her to death.
2007-03-23 17:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had any sense you would know that the woman is not feeling you like she once did and sex is not all that exciting with you. You might as well get you a hobby cause your lady sound like she is getting ready for the big freeze up. I wish you well homey.
2007-03-23 17:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by Peggy G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her...
Explain the seriousness of the problem to her..
She needs to move up to your level...
Get her some Womans Porn ( Erotic Romance )
have a few drinks and watch some porn with her...
Buy some "toys"...
2007-03-23 17:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with that? Sounds like compromise to me, shouldn't you consider her wants as well as what YOU want?
She's meeting you halfway, get over yourself.
Grace
2007-03-23 17:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try adding a little spice to your life...get off the computer and do something nice for her....As a rule you get what you deserve....
2007-03-23 17:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by foxygirl29303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to perimenopause, it will get to about 1 or 2 times a week, with hot flashes, cranky, depression, no sex drive, I know, my wife is 46
2007-03-23 17:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you shes a smart woman
2007-03-23 17:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it the sex drive is gone buddy
2007-03-23 18:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋