but he is with the girl he cheated on me with and had a baby by her, what should i do?
2007-03-23 10:27:38 · 16 answers · asked by Bianca M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Obviously, you shouldn't go back to him. It's been 8 months, of course you're still going to have some feelings for him. You should force yourself to be single until you feel you're ready to see other people. But, most importantly, you should move on. Sometimes talking to friends will help. My "little sister" wanted me to listen to her when she got out of a relationship, and it seemed to help her.
2007-03-23 10:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Linus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if man cheats on you then he not only is NOTt a real man, but he couldn't have loved you very much to do such a thing. Forget him, now. I know it's going to hurt for a while but I promise you that there's an actual man out there for you. And what I mean by actual man is a guy that will love you and ONLY you, treat you with honor and respect. Be patient. He's out there and you'll meet him when you least expect it. Then you'll have a great guy and your self respect. I'll be rootin' for ya!!!
2007-03-23 10:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by clayp72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who would cheat on you doesn't deserve you at all. Hang in there. You'll get over him eventually. In the meantime, try finding a hobby that you really like. Learn a new language, take a self-defense class, or something. It's a good way to keep your mind off of him.
2007-03-23 10:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. He cheated on you, got some other girl pregnant, he's still with her, and you are wondering what to do?
Consider yourself lucky that you are free of that loser, and move on with your life. Since you still have feelings for him, it will hurt, but over time that will fade. Resist the temptation to try and win him back. You deserve better. You deserve someone who cares enough about you to be faithful, for starters. You don't just want to be with someone you love, you want to be with someone who loves you and cares about you. Someone like that will not cheat on you. Keep looking, and you'll find the right guy eventually.
2007-03-23 10:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Phaedrus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts, right? well, here is really hurting thing to hear 'HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. HE LOVES THE OTHER WOMAN'. Get angry, get your pride back. Wake up. Now.
you have 'feelings' for him? what feelings? the only feelings who should have are hate and anger. he sure doesn't look like he has 'feelings' for you! anyway... 8 months is not so long. other mean cheat and leave their wives after years of married life. Maybe... you deserve better, have you ever thought of that? maybe it's for the better he's gone, have you thought of that? people who cheat, cheat over and over. you don't want that in your life, do you?
2007-03-23 10:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, when u love somebody and things don't work out, they will take a small piece of ur heart with them. it's not uncommon to still have feelings ever for years. i still have feelings for a girl that i haven't seen in 20 years. so it's perfectly natural. but the trick is, u have to keep those thoughts and feelings inside. there's nothing wrong with thinking about what could have been. but don't consentrate on that. think more about the way things r and just roll with it.
2007-03-23 10:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. he cheated on you, and he has a baby with someone else. sure, you still love him, but there comes a point in our lives when it's not just about how we feel anymore. i know this is easier said than done, but it'll get easier. you have to let it go, or you'll end up hurting yourself, him and his new girl, and perhaps even their baby...
2007-03-23 10:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by schatz101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, he isn't worth it. Just be patient with yourself. It takes time, my wife did the same thing to me and I need to be alone(not in a relationship) for quit some time. Get to know you and realize that no matter what it wasn't your fault.
2007-03-23 10:31:22 · answer #8 · answered by hockey33jp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything hurts at first. But your heart will heal and you will love like this again. Hes not worth it. Forget about it. Although that is of course easier said than done.
2007-03-23 10:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get over him. He's a
2007-03-23 10:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋