2007-03-23 10:26:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well unless they are like a gang with guns (if that's the case go to a teacher you trust) stand up to them. Numbers always back down a little if you are strong enough. My friend got picked on by like 6 people all at once and then i stepped in front of her and told them to back off and then they started coming onto me. By that time though my friend got a grip on her surroundings and got her head clear and backed me up. by the time we were done they 6 people were so confused and taken aback they just left. They still mess with us every so often but we ignore them because if we blow up that makes them happy and we dont want to make them happy. They are tired of us now, so they really dont do anything else to us.
2007-03-23 10:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a bully in school is no longer just school yard BS. Many communities treat it like a crime due to the fact that gun violence is often the end result. Tell your school counsellor. I am sure they will do something because if your conflict ends up on the 6:00 news and the school knew about it, the administration will be in deep trouble.
2007-03-23 17:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by Molliemae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that hard to stand up to people with numbers. Clear your throat, get off your butt, and just tell them to go take a hike. Support your friend by saying to her that whatever they said was untrue. This will make the friend feel better, and somehow make you feel better too. I've done this before at times. It wasn't bad at all. If it is a really really bad situation, do not, I repeat, do not be ashamed to tell your teacher. You'll be helping your friend.
2007-03-23 17:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know what the right action to do here, right? (Hint: It has to do with standing up for a friend no matter what the circumstances are.) Sorry.....I kinda gave that one away. But seriously, she is your best friend and you must support her through thick and thin (just as she would stick up for you). As long as this "gang" doesn't have guns or weapons, stand up for what's right. :)
2007-03-23 18:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by T-Vol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if you are out #ered? Trust me if you help her than maybe someone else will help and then another and another and so on. So just do what you can. But DONT IGNORE THE PROBLEM! That could make her feel like no one cares about her. That is even worse then having someone pick on you.
2007-03-23 17:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Logan H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At our school, nick-picking is not allowed. Turn them in then tell your principal that you would feel safer if you had a teacher around them at all time s for fear of bullying.
2007-03-23 17:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sierra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to a teacher/school administrator. It's their job to put an end to the bullying and keep you both safe.
2007-03-23 17:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a bunch of your friends and then challenge the bully and her crew to a rumble up at the park!
2007-03-23 17:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by 821 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that stinks that has happened to me before also...if she was really your BEST friend you would stick up for her...because friends r there 4 each other through thick and thin!
2007-03-23 17:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by L.C&S.Cforever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything and not be involved or tell and be a good friend.
its ur choice be a good friend or be not made fun of
2007-03-23 17:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋