what can make someone happy? . . .?

Question

i've been feeling really down lately, my boyfriend broke up with me, i have no job at the moment and to top it all off, i have suspected melonoma (currently awaiting test results) does any one know anything that will cheer me up?

normally i am happy but i just feel like all these things have come at one, any one had any health scares and how did you cope? or been dumped and how did you get over him? thanks

Answer 1

Take some time off from the stress. Some of the things I do are:
1. Go see a comedy/funny movie or a romantic comedy
2. Take a walk. It's spring! A walk in a park or in a museum, somewhere beautiful and quiet.
3. Do some exercise, then a.......
4. Nice hot bubble bath, relax.....you need it.
5. Call a friend or two and have a good time together.
6. Write down all the stuff you are feeling, no matter how negative or morose it is. When you are through writing down all the pent up anger and disappointment on those sheets of paper, roll them up and BURN them...........then say: I release my anger, I release my disappointment, I release the negativity. Now I take in joy, I take in love, I take in positivity.

Do these things as often as you can, including the #6 which is a visualization that can be extremely helpful in your health issue.

Sending healing loving thoughts your way........

Answer 2

I know how you feel, I have been there too when the relationship is not going anywhere. Here is my suggestion, take your best friend or anyone who is closest to you a getaway. Go and do fun activities like visiting a local street fair, or go to Six Flag and ride roller coaster. I used to do that and rode dozens of times until I forgot about her. Or you can always go with nature. Sailing or mount climbing is a good idea too. After all that, it is time to focus on your job search. Try to build your resume first and you have to be patient. And I feel sorry for you to be suspected melonoma. But I suggest you not to think about it too hard, because Life is beautiful. Cheers.

Answer 3

You need to realize about God loves you. The cheerful
person that you are is like in heaven. Intellectual value is hard to keep in status. You may have not seen much conflict
as perhaps a veteran in the front line, or a counsellor of poor
children in a peace corps state. Yet inside we need to know
that of all those places we could be one that is safe is right.
You need to realize that lite potentials of aging statistic is
a regular report that many people get stuck on. Doctors are
not in the right frame of mind with this fast growing world, and the economics is not supposed to chose some innocent
people like you to be test rats. Just keep in mind that your
health is nearly 90% from traditions in your own lifestyle. A
good second opinion from a holistic person perhaps a priest in a catholic charity might give you some good news.
Take the time to keep your own best interests on daily. I
believe you will get over a serious bad report. The real person you are needs to take the warning and get involved in
some upgrade for your own upkeep.

Answer 4

I've seen these kind of questions a lot. All I can say is do not stay at home. Do things that will occupy your mind like go to the movies ( 300 is good lol).

Anyways you just need to make yourself believe it's is not the end of the world. So what if your boyfriend broke up with you. He already did too much damage to you by waisting your love. DO NOT let him make you depressed. He's done enough.

Always remember that you are always part of this world and some people will love you for who you are even if you have melanoma. If you know you are a good and nice person, feel great about it.

*************SMILE*********

Answer 5

I often find that when you are feeling down the simplest things can cheer you up. Think of the things that you enjoy doing, and spend the time in the company of family (that you get along with) and friends. If that doesn't appeal to you, give yourself a treat, something you've always wanted to do, and never got round to doing or try something new. It is better to be with others, than to spend this time alone.

Answer 6

Well first of all how old are you...
If you don't go to school you can try to take some curses of something you like to do (i.e. art class, drowing class, music)
try to go out with your friends if you dont have try to make new friends, meet people, look for a job that u like, or volunteer at your local charity goups, so you can feel productive, try to accomplish somehting new everyday, set small daily goals, so you can achieve your big goal in life, go to the spa, do your nails, learn how to spend some time alone, spemd quality time w/ur family and the most importat thing, when u wake up in the morning look in the mirror, and smile, that will make ur day :)

Answer 7

You're alive. You have clothes on your back? Food in your stomach? A family? Friends? Yeah, simple answers we all take for GRANTED and expect some great mega experience to magically make us happy...Silly if not offbase in searching for happiness in one's life, I can assure you.

Do something nice for someone else...some random acts of kindness to others truly, less fortunate that perhaps you've seen around. Recognize how much worse it could be just by checking out your surroundings of people, those without limbs, people in wheelchairs, elderly who aren't able to get out and would love someone to bring them a batch of goodies, water their yard or just ask them if they need any help.

One of the greatest joys in seeking happiness, usually comes from within, when you help another less fortunate - and realize, how lucky you truly are.

Goodluck dear...I will pray it isn't melanoma, but if it is - you will learn to cope with it and abide by your doctors...and thank the Lord possibly, for more time on this earth - and make the most of it!

Grace

Answer 8

Go Out And Have A Blast. Forget All Your Problems For At Least One Night And Leave Your Problems At Home. Just Go Out And Be As Crazy As You Can Be.

Answer 9

I'm sorry to hear things have been tough lately sweetie. But the good news, things always get better! I've been going through ALOT myself lately. My gf broke up with me, cheated on me, started dating a guy BEFORE we broke up, i moved AGAIN, and work in sales which is highly stressful. That's all within a week.....haha. Yeah i feel bad but you know what. There's ALOT of people worse off than me and you. Life will always throw curve balls at us and at times it will seem like things will never stop. But they will! As far as the BF goes.......there's ALOT more of us out there. Just remember things happen for us reason. Always keep your head up, keep moving forward, love yourself first and foremost, and things will just fall into place. Hope i helped hun! Take care........

Answer 10

Merry Christmas