My best friend for 8 years, female, has broken up our friendship over me questioning her about a possible cheating encounter. She says it was lunch, I say why so defensive if it was lunch.Trying to talk to her about this topic makes her uncomfortable and pushes her away. Ok, I forgive; how do I get the friendship back? Do I overlook it? The pink elephant is becoming way too uncomfortable.
2007-03-23 09:54:10 · 3 answers · asked by Tony M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask yourself why it was important for you to corner her about this? If the "lunch" she went on was more than a simple lunch, wouldn't you prefer that she have a good friend to talk to about it? Bottom line, its none of your business. You might give her a call and tell her that you crossed a line, that you went too far, and that what she does is really up to her, that you love her and value her as a friend. Then back off and wait. In the meantime, do a little self-evaluation about your own motives and possible judgements here. Good luck!
2007-03-23 09:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by JennyP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-23 17:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say sorry and get whats wrong with her and if u cant leave her alone
2007-03-23 16:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋