are you also married? Do you think he'll leave the wife for you?
2007-03-23 09:51:34 · 40 answers · asked by cutiepie81289 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he does, do you also think that he will leave you for someone else later on down the road as well?
You really havn't put a whole lot of thought into this, have you?
2007-03-23 09:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My bestfriend is in love with an unhappiliy married man. He lives with his wife and his 3 yr old daughter and only lives there for his daughter. He told my friend that he lives there bc he has to pay the mortgage and cant live anywhere else bc he wont be able to afford 2 mortgages....His wife and him rarely talk and I dont know if I believe everything he tells her. I think he should leave his wife and get joint custody of his little girl. It's like he's too scared to tell his wife he doesnt want to be with her bc she supposidly psyco...it's really hurting my friend and its been going on for almost a year and he's 10 yrs older than her....
2007-03-23 09:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by errnmann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want a married man. He is cheating on his wife do you think he will be faithful to you. An you are also a cheat , who can trust you. All you are asking for is a life of distrust and hurt. Behavior yourself, and put as much time in your marriage to the guy you loved at one time and married as you are fooling around with a married guy.
2007-03-23 09:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by springer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women ask the same question when they
are in love with a married man. You would think
after reading many results on this web site that
women would know not to deal with married men
as all they are doing is using them for their satis-
faction and probably not divorce what they have
for what they have on the side. So women why is
it that you want to be second best when you can
be first best by having your own man that is not
occupied.
2007-03-23 15:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they leave their wife for others, but do u really want to be with a cheater? because eventually u will be in his wife's shoes and someone else will be the other woman. also what u make happen to his wife, may come back to u in the form of karma. he won't treat u any different than he does his wife, after awhile, after the newness wears off u will be in the same boat as his wife is.
2007-03-23 09:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If either a man or woman cheat on their spouse, it means they are not satisfied with the relationship, but there's something else that keeps them hanging on. If there was nothing left to hold on to, they would take the correct steps.....seek counseling to allow the relationship to work or agree on a divorce. But instead there's this hesitation of whether to be with you or the wife. I assume you are asking the question cause he has already hinted but has not done so or you have asked and he has said he will but has not left her. If so, then there is something keeping him in this situation. There is more here that you probably do not know. Ask him to be honest as you must be honest with yourself.
Good luck!
2007-03-23 10:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by veder72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not married. but i can tell you this much.. if he has children in the marriage he is less apt to leave the marriage.. it would kill his wallet first-off and his ex would make his life a living hell for being an adulterer.. I've seen this too many times with friends.. If he hasnt any children and he really loves you then he may leave his wife.
2007-03-23 10:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by drew71670 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in love with another woman and I also am married. We have never done anything but we are so compatible she is my best friend. To answer your question. Yes, I will as soon as my kids are 18. I have a responsibility as a parent first and for most.
2007-03-24 00:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by TREX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband cheated on me with another woman when we were married and after I divorced him on grounds of adultery he married her. I ended up marrying the most wonderful (and faithful!) man I could ever have asked for. My ex? He's been cheating on wife #2 for years.
2007-03-23 10:13:26 · answer #9 · answered by dollyrocker98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is NEVER gonna leave the wife for you. Women teach their men how to treat them. If you already KNOW that he is married and are still with him, then he already knows that he doesnt have to ever committ to you and you will wait for him. He will never leave her, or else he already would have.
2007-03-23 09:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋