i have two best guy friends and they both want to ask me to the prom but i really like them both and i dont want to hurt thier feelings and i still want to be friends with them after prom i just realle need help!
2007-03-23 09:39:49 · 15 answers · asked by Ashlyn B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hi there, my advice to u, is not to choose, but u have to explain yourself for the 2 guys why u didn't pick any of them, and go with someone else, the reason why I'm telling u this is that no matter who u choose one of them will be hurt,and in the end they are both ur friends so they must not be upset no matter what ur decision is, right ?
2007-03-23 09:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open with both of them at the same time. Do a coin flip of something, this way it is out there and no hard fillings. Secondly, one of them might have a dream date they would love to fulfill with someone else. Find out, and see if you can hook it up for them. Taking care of others needs before yourself will show how much you care, even if others don't understand.
2007-03-23 09:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by wombfiv5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you are wanting to date one of them or if you are just wanting to remain friends with both of them afterward. Pick the one that you feel most comfortable with and let the other one know that you didn't choose him because you didn't like him, just because you wanted to go with mr so-in-so.... or heck, take them both... a guy can have more than one girl.... why can't a chick?? All of you go as friends together......
2007-03-23 09:48:34 · answer #3 · answered by T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you! Just pick whichever one asked you out first. Or just tell them both that you just want to be friends with them and just hang out at the prom and dance with both of them.. You can just date and not get involved with either of them until you decide which one of them you like better.
2007-03-23 09:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i had to pick between to guy friends i wouldn't I'd just go with both of them and go as friends not in a relationship so just do the same OK
2007-03-23 10:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by perfectprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they both really like you then can you ask a third person, maybe the person that YOU'd most like to go with (i'm assuming that it might not be either of them). If it is one of them, you have to really be honest with yourself and choose the person that you would most like to go with; anything less is selling yourself out for fear that someone wont like you.
2007-03-23 09:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by develop_nyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh, tough one. Is there anyway that you can worm your way out of going to prom? If you want to save your friendships, it might be worth it.
2007-03-23 09:44:09 · answer #7 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose the one that makes you happier and that one that you like the most, your going to have to hurt one of their feelings eventually to be with the guy you want to be with, its part of life
2007-03-23 09:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by MariPari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with someone else.......either one you pick will leave the other feeling like crap and the friendships will suffer.
2007-03-23 09:42:58 · answer #9 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go as a group of three
2007-03-23 09:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋