Ok I am very boy crazy. You see theres this guy and he likes me, and I like him back but I dont want to go out with him for some reason. I also like this other guy but he made it clear He didnt like me, but he still calls me. Then theres this other guy.He's very popular and he goes out with someone. We used to be best friends,but now with this new girl things changed. He still flirts and always tries talking to me but things are differnt now. I dont know who I really like and I'm very confused.Pleasehelp!!! A.s.a.p.
2007-03-23 09:38:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to sort out what you know about each of them and their current situation.
a) boy #2 made it clear he doesn't want a relationship with you. that's obviously a no, but things change
b) boy #3 has a girlfriend and you dont want to get mixed up in that kind of a situation
c) boy #1 however, likes you and is single. Maybe you stop getting distracted by these other guys, you could find you really like him.
Or maybe your heart is telling you that you shouldn't be in a relationship. Remember-you dont need a boyfriend you make you happy.
2007-03-23 09:53:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first you need to decide who you really like... Hint Hint: You shouldn't want to be with someone who has told you they don't want to be with you, even if they flirt with you... They are flirting for one thing and one thing only... SEX!! The other guy that has a girlfriend should definetly be off limits because he is seeing someone and he at some point in time was your bestfriend and as now being a friend to him you should not comprise your friendship with him or his relationship with the other girl!! SO THIS ONLY LEAVES ONE PERSON LEFT: The one who likes you, maybe you should get to know him, he may turn out to be a very nice guy... Give him a chance!!
2007-03-23 16:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Jae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young and confused !! Dont worry about it many of us are the same in that respect. The adage goes only a fool is really very sure of anything . Whoever you are the most comfortable with and make you at ease and maybe laugh and share things with without any strings . I ve always had a thing for tom boys , someone who I could be physical with without saying too much. If you have a shy one , Watch out !! They say those are the one to watch out for !! Sometimes you need to nudge info out of them but they usually have a crush on you and you may least expect it ??
2007-03-23 16:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by johnnydee3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady, you are doing nothing more than creating stress for yourself. This cat that you like, but won't date; what's up with that? The other guy that has a girl; be warned. Do you really want the trouble that comes along with someone willing to practice infidelity [ cheat on his girl]? If you are as beautiful as you feel you won't have any trouble finding someone just for you. Now, if you are a playette... then handle your business. Just remember that the latter of the two might be a problem.
2007-03-23 16:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by John J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crazy is right ...
We really can't tell you who you should like and who you should chase.
I feel strongly that if you spend a little time working on looking after yourself, you'll work out what is good for you and go after that (it's true in MOST cases). First be happy with yourself and sort yourself out.
The second guy you describe has a new girlfriend, so he's probably off limits. Most people would feel that way, anyway.
2007-03-23 16:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start out by making a list of pros and cons, what do you like about these guys, what don't you like. That usually helps sort out who you like the most and what guy would be the best for a relationship.
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2007-03-23 16:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by CountingBlueCars 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you have to find out what are your standards !!!! how are you going to let the world see your difference! just because you are liked and you like doesnt mean you have to act on it ! thats just thoughts and harmones!! take the time out and find out what makes you happy! and if you still dont know dont rush yourself, keep everyone as a friend! and if they cant respect that decision then you didnt need them in the first place!!
2007-03-23 17:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by applebottom19822004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens to me too. i like four guys at the same time and its hard to chose which one i like the most. if i see one of the guys i say he is the one until i see the other guy. im afraid to go out with one because its not fair for him to love me with all his heart and me liking 3 guys
2007-03-23 16:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by Ballerina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of each of their names...she what you like about one & what you don't like....Then take a look at the list & choose which is the best choice.
Good Luck!
2007-03-23 16:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
s'okk.
i dont think u like neither. i used to be that way, i used to like any guy that would look my way.
but after i got badly burned last year by my crush, i learned 1 thing :CONTROOOOL.
2007-03-23 16:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋