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What would you do????? Would you answer the her questions with details? she want to know how we did it, positions, licking, kisses, everything?

2007-03-23 09:31:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

17 answers

Do not answer this question under any circumstance. It will get thrown back in your face in the future.

Now on the other hand, if your wife is a very secure and truely curious lady then you got a keeper. If her intentions are only to pick up a few "new moves" that she know you enjoy then you are a lucky lucky man. In such case, be vague in your responses. Tell her positions and what you enjoyed. Don't be too enthusiastic about it though. Never say, "Oh!!! One time we did ______ and it was awesome!" Also tell her that you didn't "make love" to the ex-girlfriend. It was just sex. You only make love to her.

Seriously though, avoid this question dude. It won't turn out well.

2007-03-23 09:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by holbrpa 2 · 1 0

I think your wife is a little mental and insecure. She wants to torture herself by trying to be better then someone who is not there anymore. A very common mistake that women make. Don't tell her, it won't end there. Tell her you don't remember or it doesn't matter because she (your wife) is definately better at what she does. Even if it is a lie, lying is never good but in this case it will be for the benefit of your wifes mental health.

2007-03-23 09:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 1 0

I wouldn't touch this one with a ten foot pole!!! Aren't you even remotely curious about why your wife is asking about this? I'd certainly ask her why she's so interested in the details. And then I'd take a quick inventory of whether or not she's getting her needs met in bed. Ask her if she'd like to try something different and what that might be. As much as she pesters you about the details, I'd remain a gentleman and keep my mouth closed. Its disrespectful to your ex-girlfriend, to yourself, and ultimately to your girlfriend.

2007-03-23 09:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by JennyP 7 · 0 0

You have to answer, but I would not go into detail. The problem is that women want all the details, however once they know them, they cannot let them go.

Do not give her intimate details... give her the basics and downplay it if it was a great sexual experience.

Sometimes ignorance is bliss, and in this case ... your wife should remain ignorant.

2007-03-23 09:43:48 · answer #4 · answered by Steffi 3 · 1 0

If she may feel she is not satisfying you she may be inexperienced and wants to venture in new territory that she is not used to. Older women tend to satisfy men better than younger because younger woman care more about themselves and have no reference to the time clock. I would reference Dr Ruth and try new things with her and not copy what you did with the Ex. Vary old styles with a your own flare !!

2007-03-23 09:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by johnnydee3 1 · 1 0

This is a trick question- if you DARE answer it she will hate you and you will get the silent punishemnt and will say: "but you asked me.." taht will not matter. just tell her taht she (the ex) was rotten in bed and that no one ever rocked your world like your current girl does- then you will have a great time +PEACE.

2007-03-23 09:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

no details ever

it only leads to comparisons and arguments

do not give her details of intimacy with you ex==leave it in the past

it will be held against you at some point

2007-03-23 09:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by eehco 6 · 0 0

I would say not to answer. Sometimes I ask my boyfriend questions like that. I don't know why I ask, but when he tells me I end up wishing I had never asked.

2007-03-23 09:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by lorbell 4 · 1 0

Well, she doesn't need to know that! What my husband did before me, I do not want to know, nor do I think I have the right to know as far as that goes. That is in the past and that is exactly what I would tell her. As long as their is nothing threatening your health or hers, leave it in the past.

2007-03-23 09:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by ~Miss~ 5 · 0 0

Unless it happen yesterday and she has video I would turn the focus on her and tell her that none of that matters now that I have you.

2007-03-23 09:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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