Recently, my boyfriend decided that he wanted to do something that I don't agree with. While this act will not involve me, or affect me in general, I do not want him to get into any harm. Am I being controlling?
2007-03-23 09:28:36 · 10 answers · asked by [[sierra]] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not if the only reason your not wanting him to participate in something is solely for safety reasons but if you find yourself asking him not to do certain things or activities based on feelings of jealousy then you become controlling. But remember control works both ways so just remember before passing judgement always walk in the other set of shoes first.
2007-03-23 09:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by ThePleasurePlayground.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's a lot you haven't said. Is this action on the part of your boyfriend illegal? Immoral? Will you be able to continue your relationship with him once he's satisfied his curiosity?
These are only questions you can answer. And as for being "controlling", on the basis of what you offer, I'd say no.
2007-03-23 09:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 11:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Controlling? No, you just care for the guy's welfare. Don't let him tag you with "controlling". You concerns probably have him feeling guilty about this things he's about to do..certainly, he's having second thoughts, so it's easier to shift blame to you and call you controlling rather than his confronting the reasons for wanting to do this "thing".
If you care about the guy, of course you're going to be concerned.
2007-03-23 09:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by I am Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, some people might say yes but no. You are not being controlling at all but being protective, you don't want any harm to come to him.
2007-03-23 09:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not controling you are just worried about you boyfriends safety because you most likely love him.just be careful because i ruined a relationship because i would like get mad at my bf when he would just talk to a girl thats only a friend yeah so be very careful.other than that your not being controling
2007-03-23 09:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by emochick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sierra,
Your not controlling, no where close! If youlove and care about thi sperson you are just worried about their well being so, you aren't being curious , you are being worried, loving and most of all a good girlfriend:)
2007-03-23 09:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by chychyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o no its very natural , its being afraid of ur second getting hurt like its u, if u ask me its love and its something beautiful u must cherish
2007-03-23 09:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that he will get harmed then your not being controling.Your just being concerned for his safety.Do what you must.
2007-03-23 09:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope just conerned!
2007-03-23 09:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by ~* 3 Months Prego*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋