I like a guy I never tell him that I like him. He lives in the same house. I know that he has a girlfriend and I feel that I can't tell him because I know that he doesn't like and he has a girlfriend. I can't tell him because I am afraid of being rejected. I am trying to get over him but I can't do it.
2007-03-23 09:25:25 · 10 answers · asked by jeanny d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I am a guy but I've been in that place, liking someone who I couldn't tell I liked for whatever reason. Trying to ignore them or keeping busy doesn't work for me because even if you weren't living in the same house, it'll just make it even worse when you see him or are reminded of him.
I would recommend trying to get to know him. A lot of times, I've found that they're not the kind of people I envisioned them to be, and if he is a good guy, be his friend. At least you'll have something, and for most people that's enough. It takes a lot of effort, but at least trying to talk to him will alleviate at least some of the feelings you're having right now. Good luck.
2007-03-23 09:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make yourself so busy away from this guy that you have no time to dwell on him. You will find in doing other things that you may become attracted to someone else who is doing the same things as you.
I promise that if all you do is think about him you will never get over him. Get moving and get busy. I hope that helps. :-)
2007-03-23 16:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Easter Bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something that yu really enjoy doing. Focus on yourself, make yourself happy and set your mind on something else try meeting as many people as you can that make you feel good.
And leave them too alone think about how you would feel if this would happen to you. Good luck. You got to love yourself first. If you do you wouldnt even wanna envolved in something like that. Its not gonna feel right anyways. have a good day
2007-03-23 16:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by silke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. let him know in a subtle way. he'll get the message. then it's up to him to decide what will happen. but whatever happens be friendly and honor yourself. even if you get rejected, that doesn't mean you're a lesser person. you're just in love. no big deal. good luck!
2007-03-23 16:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of you first. Be his friend and be respectful to him and his relationship but at the same time, do some things to improve you. Laugh more. Be comfortable with yourself. You'd be surprised how many people want to be around people who are comfortable with themselves.
2007-03-23 16:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over somebody is to get on top of somebody new!
2007-03-23 16:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by sef567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to be a friend. Friends are forever .... women come and go.... who knows what may happen.
2007-03-23 16:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by loveablefun_intelligent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him sometimes you have to take a chance.it is the only way you will know.it might not be what you want to hear but.you want to be happy.this is the best way.
2007-03-23 17:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by Steve L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to get over someone too. it stinks, doesnt it?
you should leave them alone. i know its hard, but. give yourself some time and eventually you will let go and get over it...
2007-03-23 16:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the lyrics to "over it" by Katherine Mcphee.
2007-03-23 17:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋