she broke up with me....and she has a new boyfriend now.
She tells me that she still loves me the way she use to....and wants to come see me...i still love her too.
She said It's not to get back together.
She knows that i would work things out with her with whatever caused the breakup...
She always turns to me when she is needs help.~
Converstion:
Me: What's your purpose in coming to see me?
Her: nothing
Me: nothing?
Her: i just want to.
Note: She's my distant cousin .
She's perfectly fine with cousin's dating as well as me.
What's up with her?
2007-03-23 09:16:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I told her i'm looking too :)
2007-03-23 09:20:36 · update #1
Dang, Cuz! Maybe the whole inbreeding thing is making this hard for the both of you. Ya'll need ta move on and find people who don't share the same DNA as ya'll.
2007-03-23 09:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Cap'n Rita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to have her cake and eat it too. In other words, she wants to move on but she doesn't want you to. She wants to keep you emotionally attached to her in case things don't work out with her new guy. She always turns to you because you never turn her away. She's playing games, and it is up to you to put a stop to this nonsense. Otherwise, she will always have you on a leash. When she asks to see you or needs your help, come up with an excuse...or just say no.
2007-03-23 16:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by True Believer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, i don't think it's a good idea to let her come and see u again; considering that both of you are distant cousin....i think it's time for u to move on cuz she's already found someone to replace you...i believe she must have like that guy to be with him..u should take it to heart and move on and find someone that would love u for who u are...of ocourse, both of you guys could stay friends but u should be firm with her and don't let her come and see u cuz it's going to be harder for u to move on...Good luck..
2007-03-23 16:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by miss_xiong03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you want to not only break up the relationship she is in now which is wrong but she is your cousin! There is nothing in that whole thing that made me want to help you. I think you should stop talking to her find someone who is single and not related to you.
2007-03-23 16:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely Lady 27 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I personally believe there are enough people in the world so that you don't have to date family.Distant or not she is family and that by all moral standards is disgusting!
2007-03-23 16:21:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all are screwed up in the head. I don't care how distant you are you don't date your cousin!
2007-03-23 16:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Just a girl... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kayy .. well i guess she got really used to you
and she jst trusts you to come to you with her problums n stuff
i guess.,. BUT THE WHOLE BEING COUSIN THING.
whats up withthat? thats not okay .
you knoww if family has babies.
they turn out retarteddd!
2007-03-23 16:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants u2 hit on her first.do not bother,she sounds like a loner
2007-03-23 16:57:56 · answer #8 · answered by begum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋