Is it really gone when you've been married for a while and have children? Why is everything so schedualed even the intamate moments and can you really be "in the mood" if you know its coming?
2007-03-23 09:08:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In order to keep a family moving, and in the right direction, it takes a well-organized plan, and good leadership. Spontaneity is great, but a family can hardly "afford" it. What you CAN do, is when opportunity arises, "carpe diem"...seize the moment!
2007-03-23 09:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your points are very vaild but there are little things that you can go to make the plan event more exciting.
Leave your husband a sexy note in his jacket pocket. Or a sexy voicemail on his cell phone.
I am sure that you can come up with a few of your own. Those were just to help you get started.
2007-03-23 09:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u put your attention on your kids more.. U have a busy life. I know its hard.. My marriage went down hill after a year.. We were married only 6 years and divorced. U just have to beable to communicate.. without that u have nothing. maybe find a sitter for the night orsomething and go out and be yourselves.. romance doesnt always have to be in the bedroom
2007-03-23 09:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question then yes, for you it is hard.
However, you don't have to be spontaneous to have fun. it can be planned. I've often hear that anticipation is the best aphrodisiac.
So plan something special and have fun with it. If you want ideas on what that can be... well, that's not something I'd write here.
2007-03-23 09:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You can be spontaneous, or you can create a lot of excitement. I suggest that you get the 101 nights of great sex book...it has missions for each member of the couple to do for one another and some of them are pretty wild.
2007-03-23 09:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by findingselflove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your husband have to communicate and be creative.
What yall did when yall were dating, yall have to work harder now that yall are married.
You can still keep the fires burning, but you have to keep working at it. It won't come to you on a platter.
2007-03-23 12:45:44 · answer #6 · answered by brotherb95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initiate it. Attack him after the kids have gone to bed and you are alone.
2007-03-23 09:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jacuzzi Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not gone just set aside.......send the kids to grandma's. And light alot of candles...then you will find it.
2007-03-23 09:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spontaneity is not hard if you plan it well enough.
2007-03-23 09:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
appartently it's hard to spell -
2007-03-23 09:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by APV 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋