he starts saying things like "I’m going to marry you" is he a person who will eventually be possessive or is it just a figure of speech to let you know he is impressed with you. I just start talking to this guy & we are going to go out on a date this weekend, but I have noticed that when he has asked me about myself & I answer in a way that he likes, agrees with, or was hoping I would say we will say stuff like "See that's why I told you I am going to marry you" or "Tell me what do you want marquise or princess cut". I have asked a friend or two what are the signs of a possessive person & he does not have them. He does not call me before I can call him back, he does not want to know what I'm doing or why, and he has never asked me any of my personal business. He has said stuff like "I want you to call me everyday" if I ask him would he like for me to call him back. I don't think much of it, but my gf's feel a guy joking about marriage very early is bad. Figure of speech or possessive.
2007-03-23 09:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's just trying to be cute. My husband used to do that kinda stuff to me when he first met me. He asked me to marry him on our first date. I said no and told him that he was a weirdo, but eventually we did get married and have been happily married for 7 years.
2007-03-23 09:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have doubts and are feeling strange about his comments or you wouldn't be asking this, I would say that you should trust your instincts. Just because he doesn't exhibit possessive signs at first, doesn't mean that once he "ropes you in" they will start to show up. Also, how old are you, and he? Be careful, I believe that these feelings should be mutual, if you aren't as excited about the relationship as he is, chances are there is something wrong. He shouldn't have to convince you that you two are perfect for each other. Things should progress naturally and mutually.
2007-03-23 16:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by april 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-23 16:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds a little weird. I would be real careful because he does sound possesive!!
2007-03-23 16:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id definitly say that his being possessive
2007-03-23 16:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by kimliveshere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep away from him.
2007-03-23 16:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-23 16:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mike N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋