Theres this girl in my class who is always sucking up to the teachers or all adults for that matter. Can I do this for you or Can I help you with that? She's almost like a clone. Before every test she sits real straight, sharpens two pencil and looks so intense. I think she's a habitual liar or she has 2 of everything every person has. Better this, better that. She says mean things to people. For example, "Do you own a brush" or that new shirt does nothing for you. How do you handle someone like this? She seems to have to be better at everything. What makes a person like this? By the way her mother is twice as bad. This girl told the whole class that her mother said she was smarter and better than anyone else. The kicker is she's 13 years old. Shouldn't she know better by now? Help. I'm ready to just slap her.
2007-03-23 08:58:00 · 10 answers · asked by bob 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
She should know better! Just try to not let her bother you. Karma.. the way she treats people will come back to haunt her.
2007-03-23 09:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by Forestdancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a girl like this to in my team. Actually thers 2 of them. All you have to do is totally ignore her and if she says something mean think of a come back but dont slap shell have to give in sometime when averyone is annoyed by her and wont have anyone to talk to. So just move on and forget about her.
2007-03-23 16:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently this 13 y/o girl in your class reminds you of some inner-facet of yourself, that you despise. Sweetheart, it is always us............No one else has the power to annoy us unless we give our power away.
But, if you want to slap her, go ahead. However, I would recommend you take a long hard look in the mirror at your own inner reflection first.
2007-03-23 16:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by MeanderingMind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like this aren't worth speaking to. I always enjoy when someone like this gets a reality check and something happens to them that makes them realize they are actually ugly due to their personalities.
Ignore her. It's all you can really do.
2007-03-23 16:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by nymom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. sometimes people act all cocky and conceited just so they can help their own self esteem. i know, it sounds stupid but it made sense in my mind =) its nothing you can really do, i think shes just a kiss up who *tries* to help people out. ignore her, i mean at 13 years old (same as me) some people have that issue, and you can just try your best to ignore her. dont slap her, though.
2007-03-23 16:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know this girl and the best thing you can do is to not concern yourself with somebody that you do not have any respect for and you obviously don't like, unless she personally attacks you or causes you distress. stand up for the people around you and focus on yourself, cause your not gonna change her so why even bother.
if she wants to change she will.
2007-03-23 16:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by lifeoutsidethecircle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get use to it, it happens all your life, there is always that one, where you work, where you relax. they are always there, her parents made her that way. she can't help it, it is who she is now. only when she has to change will she change. I work with a guy who is like that and everyone wants to choke him. and I have always worked with a person like that. no matter where you go there they are. go to the swimming pool and there is always one there. go to church and there is one there.
2007-03-23 16:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will eventually figure it out. Until then just stay away from her.
2007-03-23 16:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by DizziDazi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is learning this behavior from her mother.. she may grow out of it when she gets older.. just stay away from her
2007-03-23 16:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT!!! slap her!!
2007-03-23 16:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by bulletprooflonliness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋