I know what I did was wrong and will never, ever do it again. My best friend was, in my opinion jealous of another female friend I had been spending time with and she told my husband I was having an affair on him. I don't know if I can trust her anymore with anything. I could see if she knew my husband before I did, how she would choose to tell him an betray me. My husband and my best friend do not speak at all. She only called him to tell him about the affair.
2007-03-23 08:29:54 · 13 answers · asked by lovely 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She has proven you cannot trust her. If she felt is was so wrong, she should have said something to you first like, if you don't straighten up I'm telling.
She is not your best-friend and my advice is for you to get as far away from her as you can.
Work with your husband, forget about her.
2007-03-23 08:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She will not be a real pal what so ever. Nevertheless even knowing that i would not go telling that secret about her. That would ruin her family and it's not your position to try this nor would you want that weighing on you for years yet to come. I would flat out knock the crap out of her although. No telling why she would tell whatever like that however hey, he is your ex so it should not bother you too dangerous. When you had been collectively it might be distinctive however you don't seem to be. Sure be mad however now not mad adequate to break a loved ones. Consider, two wrongs do not make a proper. Have you requested her why she would inform him that? Maybe she used to be too inebriated to fully grasp it or maybe she is just too stupid to have an understanding of what she did. I have no idea her but there would be so many one of a kind factors, important one being that she might just love drama.
2016-08-10 21:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously your friend did want to keep you out of trouble, but she should have confronted you first. It's good that you know what you did was wrong.
Do you think you could trust her again? If you can, then take her back. If you can't, then it wouldn't be possible to be friends because friendship is built on trust.
Try taking baby-steps. Start by talking a little bit. Eventually you might be able to build it up into a friendship.
2007-03-25 13:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Catherine♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have a guilt complex....Funny you would use the word "TRUST" since your the one who cheated.The question should be more like how could anyone ever trust you! You betraded your husband by having an affair, You friend perhaps should not have said anything either , but you are both wrong...You for having the affair and your friend for not minding thier own business. With friends like that who needs enimies....
2007-03-23 08:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by K F 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Good friends are the kind that would do anything to get you out of trouble and that is exactly what she did. Someone in your place is normal to deduce that she is simply jealous but being your best friend, it is her job to keep you in line.
2007-03-23 08:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take her back? That is out of the question. DO NOT take her back. Your most likely going to get a divorce. You seriously want to be a friend with someone who made you get a divorce. I think not. Tell her if she tries to you again: "Talk to the hand."
2007-03-23 08:33:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should commend her for havings morals and values that you lack,and why should she want "you" for a friend. your husband and your ex-friend should ditch you for good. go sleep with the dogs (family) that you are more comfortable with.and leave the humans alone. be ashamed of your actions and bury your head in the sand.
2007-03-23 08:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you take her back, just be cautious with what you tell her. She sounds sneaky!
2007-03-23 08:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by ty4all 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats a friend? I think not!
2007-03-23 08:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope..
Never speak to her again...
2007-03-25 13:55:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋