I am in the seventh grade. When I go to lunch we are alowed to pick our own tables. Meaning you can sit anywhere you want. I have been at FIVE TABLES since September. Also, you may be able to st anywhere you want. But people usually stay at the same tables all year.
Anyway, again, I have been kicked out of FIVE lunch tables. And I'm sick of being kicked out. Because if I do I have to sit at the spare table by myself. And I look like such a fool.
What should I do about this. I can't even sit with any of my friends because since they all are immature my friendships with them just keep turning on and off constantly. And I have tried to sit with all of them, but eventually they kick me out because I affect their reputation. I could go, but basically my life at school is a living hell.
2007-03-23 08:27:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Never look at your situations as if their bad. See and learn from every single one of them this make you think allot and help make better choices. If you are getting kicked out why do you listen to them? sit where you please now if they have a problem with it let them deal with it. continue eating your meal now don't feel intimidated by them show them you don't care what they have to say. What can they do hurt you? well then they will just get in trouble and look stupid for wanting to posses a lunch table. And how can you affect their reputation when your not in-control of their actions they have a mind of their own and nobody should blame you for their childish way's if anything stay away from them or else people might just think your jealous over the tables too. So what if your in a table by your self grab a girl to sit down and have lunch with you. Meet other people it's never to late to meet new friends but I tell you this people who want to own a lunch table is a big sign of insecurity their scared of change and that's scary for them later on in the long run. But never feel scared to speak up maybe this will have them back off and not mess with you.
So next time grab your food and sit where your heart desires
If they have a problem with it ignore and continue eating and I'm sure the tables don't have their name on it. speak up and don't be afraid to be the person that you are we need to sometimes defend our self's and when people never see the bad side because we all have a bad side and a good side and when their use to the nice side they take advantage and make the person feel intimidated.Show a little of your bad side let's see how they'll react but make sure you handle it well.Good luck and I hope they stop giving you a bad time.
2007-03-23 17:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by amores 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, and I thought I had it bad because my friends never save me a seat at lunch.
Maybe you should try making new friends. Even if it's with the fat girl you always diss behind her back. It's better than being lonely, right?
2007-03-23 15:51:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋