i'm worried that my bf is telling his friends about our freaky sex life. is that something guys do? he's in his 20's, slightly immature.....why do guys do this? do they tell EVERY detail?
I feels embarrassed around his friends like they are cracking up behind my back.
2007-03-23 08:01:21 · 18 answers · asked by mariah2480 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Most guys don't do this. It's immature and a sign that they have so many doubts about their maleness that they need reassurance from their buds that they're really studs. If your guy is really doing this, dump him.
Remember the boy on "American High" that was the gymnast? After the series, he took hidden camera videos of himself in bed with his girlfriend and then showed them to his buddies. To my mind, he thought he had to prove (maybe to himself) that he wasn't gay. Same idea.
You deserve someone with more confidence.
2007-03-23 10:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, it's LIES. And their buds know this because THEY LIE, TOO! Women are the most honest about their sex lives. When BOYS grow into men, often they stop talking about their sex lives, but, after being married over 38 years, I've found that women do not. We had a roomy for a few years and I often over heard her and my wife talking. That gal was KINKY!
If your bf IS talking about his sex life with you, knock him in the head! REAL MEN don't blab. To pay him back, tell him you'll THEM about some of HIS stupid failures...or lack of pleasing you. That will shut him up!
(Yup, I'm a guy)
2007-03-23 17:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's that immature, dump his childish butt. If you have a freaky sex life, you should have it with someone you trust.
I have found that the guys who talk about sex the most are the ones who really aren't having much of it. They have to make themselves SEEM like they have a lot of sex. They don't.
2007-03-23 15:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Endlessly. I stopped having lunch in the breakroom so I would stop hearing the lies guys tell about their freaky sex life.
One guy told this story on how he and his wife went onto the roof in a blinding rainstorm and make out like crazed weasles.
2007-03-23 15:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you but yes guys do this for status. If the guy cared about you he wouldn't be doing this because he would have respect for you and what you both do in private. It seems he may like you but is using you as a tool to brag about to his buddies. that sucks.
2007-03-23 15:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My hubby is forty and he tells his co workers about his sex life, they tell details..Now if the man is having an affair he never says a word until it leaks out.
2007-03-23 15:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it but pretty much. You know how girls get together and talk crap about guys? Well for men it's bragging about sexual exploits. And if the details are spicy, or if he's deliberatly degrading you; he's probably telling his friends everything.
2007-03-23 15:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by guy o 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes guys do talk about their sex life however, if your not a jump off he shouldn't go into details
2007-03-23 15:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by sexydivaonamission 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys tend to talk. but if he gets into every little detail then that would be inappropriate somethings should stay between the two of you.
2007-03-23 15:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by JudiM 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes they do...its like having a medal pinned to their chest... they love to brag and you can only believe about 10% of it.... lets face it if their sex life was that good their wives wouldn't be leaving them for other guys.
2007-03-23 15:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋