Every time I hear "honesty is the best policy" I remember coming clean about something minor and getting my @$$ chewed out for it.
I tell my signifigant other everything which has worked for AND against me. But I wonder, do the little things that hurt no one need to be disclosed. Don't we all have secrets of some kind?
What do you think?
Are you an open book
or is discresion the better part of valor.
Let me Clarify, outright lying is bad, and if you get busted you need to come clean, no question. But. . .if a little secret can cause big problems, is it worth keeping? Can you keep a secret? Are there secrets that you CAN live with?
SHHHH! You dont have come clean to the world but. . .
Tell Matticus he WANTS to KNOW.
2007-03-23 07:57:34 · 7 answers · asked by Matticus Kole 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well of course Matticus wants to know!!!
That's how he got so smart to begin with!
I think that if it is not relevant to the person then it does not have to be disclosed. Especially if it has the capacity to ruin that relationship with no real basis.
Would you really WANT to know that your wife had a threesome with 2 guys, even if it WAS years before you met?
2007-03-23 20:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sparky5115 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do think that there are certain things that don't need to be talked about, but I also believe that you do need to be forward and honest with the person you are with. (hypocritical I know)
Just let them know that you have things in your past that don't need to be shared..(If for some reason they need to know)
2007-03-23 08:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jesabel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only the ones you want to keep.
2007-03-23 08:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
keeping secrets and being honest are two different things.
2007-03-23 08:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by Goddess T 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am entitled to my secrets. I have them, and I keep them.
2007-03-23 08:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i got alot of secrets im keeping :(
2007-03-23 08:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by GleN 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, there are those secerts you just don't want to tell if you know they might or will devid a family apart :(.
2007-03-23 08:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Girly♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋