I just really wanna know this cuz i'v never been with a real hotty b4, sure i'v been with some large guys, and some thin guys, but i want a muscle guy, but i just donno how to get them. They always ignore you, especialy here in South Florida, its like they need to be that way to keep there image. I just don't understand. All i want to know is how to get with a moderatly toned guy, u know like one of those models. Cuz on tv all you see is cute with cute, and muscle with muscle, well i want some chubby with hoty. Lolz
Thanx,
Carlos, South FL
2007-03-23 07:40:12 · 11 answers · asked by Supercc1 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Please don't give up looking! Every guy looks for what he's attracted to and there is a muscle guy or two out there who will like you! You just have to be patient.
You don't mention your age but if you're at least 18, you could visit or join some web sites for men. You're bound to find someone.
I know a couple who've been together for about 3 or 4 years; the younger guy is a total muscle hunk and his older partner is a chub. They are both in love with each other. So it IS possible!
There's NOTHING wrong with being a chub.
Good luck and bear hugs!
2007-03-23 09:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by behrmark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first off for all of you telling him to loose wait you're retarted. Hunny dont change who you are, I'm a thin guy, in good shape and I happen to have a massive crush on a chubby guy. Not all guys are looking for model bodies in fact i do some modeling and have dated models and i can tell you now its not for me. But if those are who you like thats great, go for it.
The most important step is be confident in yourself and your abilities. Chubby guys have no reason not to get with muscular guys. Just flirt like you would if he werent a god lol CAUSE HE ISNT.
If he doesnt like u cause ur chubby either A hes shallow or B hes just not attracted to you, just like your not to chubby guys so dont assume hes an asshole.
yah thats it kay bye
2007-03-26 08:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depresses me that the general concensus so far is that chubby guy needs to change himself first. As though there's something wrong with him and he needs to be fixed before he has a shot at living the fantasy. There is a segment of the gay community where big is not only OK, it's considered attractive. I know of a couple of quality adult-oriented web sites that support chubby men and those that pursue them.
2007-03-23 09:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Greenville SC Guy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some muscle guys work hard at getting to where they are. For them, looking at the guys with a few extra pounds is saying they are slobs and lazy and don't care about their looks. Occassionally you will find a hot guy that is willing.
2007-03-23 07:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by spartexcites 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 07:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by goodgion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL
i love your question! finally some honesty - i've been reading the christian answers and my god are they scarey! anyway...
i'm not gay hun.. but i reakon that you should sign up to a gym and be a little shy - no saucy eye contact with the first yummy guy to get within 50 yards of you... play a little hard to get...;-)
pretend you are not, yes NOT interested - it will bug him... because how could you not be interested.. hes gorgeous!! this may take a little while as you Have to make sure you step into the persona of someone wanting to shape up a little...
don't get involved though - just have some fun as i bet you are right and they are so wrapped up in how they look - they forgot to take care of who's inside - but i may be, and hope i am, wrong...
good luck
xx
2007-03-23 07:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by emma m 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It would help if cute chubby guy could loose a little weight. I guess I need to take my own advice. I have been working on it. Now I am cute chubby muscular guy.
2007-03-23 07:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by The Eight Ball 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well think about it...people tend to be attracted to people who are about the same level of attractiveness as they are.
If you are chubby, and other chubby guys aren't good enough for you, do you expect muscular guys to like them?
I'm not muscle stud...but I work out a LOT in order to get as good looking as possible, and hopefully attract someone as good looking as possible.
2007-03-23 08:50:48 · answer #8 · answered by rob1977nc 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not all it's cracked up to be. I dated a personal trainer, they are too wrapped up in them selves. And for some reason they were cold and clammy. Anyhoo...confidence in yourself is the way to win anyone over.
-s.fla here too=)
2007-03-23 07:45:00 · answer #9 · answered by ryee40007 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fantasize somewhere else!
2007-03-23 07:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by Gummy 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋