I have really had problems with my friend after shifting in with him. He has not been doing any of the common chores, keeps the house untidy and does every thing possible to irritate me. He has been trying to ignore me and move on with a bunch of new friends. He simply does the opposite of whatever I say. He makes fun of me and my girl friend. He talks all mean things and makes it a point to lie 24 - 7 . Due to the previously common friend circle I am left out, and out of the friends every one always thinks that it is my fault as I am intolerant and seek perfection. He is too too friendly with another guy, and now I even suspect that he might be gay. He never listens and after being furious at a little prank has gone to the extent of burning me with an iron. I am left with no one to even talk to in the city. I am really hurt by his mean and bitter comments. I fail to follow why is it so when I did no harm. I really don't feel good about me . I can only move out after 1mth. How to adj?
2007-03-23 07:23:37 · 3 answers · asked by ashu2sinha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know by experience that having a roommate can be a NIGHTMARE...and your situation is no different. If I understand you correctly, you have one more month before you can move out?
I made myself as scarce as possible during my last days of roommate hell. I was never ever there except to shower and sleep. Sometimes not even then; I'd go to a friend's. I avoided my roommate at almost all costs. In the meantime I was making arrangements for my move out of there. Finally when she and her bf took off on vacation, I packed up and left. They came back to find my stuff and me GONE. I did it with a clean conscience as well; I was completely current on all bills so I owed nothing. Financially or otherwise.
Go to your girlfriends; the library, the movies, stay late at work, whatever you need to do to avoid this person. Only see or talk to him when you absolutely necessary. It s*cks to have to do this but this is survival mode until you figure something out.
He is a mean, inconsiderate, miserable person and scr*w anyone who is trying to make this about you. Stay away as much as you can until you find somewhere else to go. Everyone deserves a safe, secure place to call home.
2007-03-23 07:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be looking for a new place to live, start finding something in your price range, get your ducks in a row, and then move out .If you've signed the lease and it's not up yet, wait until it is or if you're on a month to month; make sure you give plenty of notice (only to your landlord) I wouldn't be saying anything to the roommate.
2007-03-23 07:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 10:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋