ive been with my boyfiend for 3years and 2 months and we still hvent had sex because hes my first ones hes already been with 2 girls but i stil havent been with anyone nd hes asked me if i was ready sometimes i feel like i am but when it comes to the point i juss back out what should i do???
2007-03-23 07:22:18 · 9 answers · asked by Ms princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listen to your own conscience and don't think with your body, but your mind. Do you want to have sex with him? If you are not ready, and you don't feel comfortable about it, don't do it. Also, are you ready to be responsible for the consequences that is to come? For example, what if the condom breaks, and you get pregnant? Sex is not just about having fun and going high when you're at it, it's also about being responsible for yourself. Learn all you can about sex, when and when you're not fertile, all these issues to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Also, he must use condom or you should not have sex with him. Never even let him talk you into having sex without one, just because it 'feels better'. It's bullsh*t, because your safety comes first before anything else. Good luck!
2007-03-23 07:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by Hanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's OK if you you're not ready. And it seems to me as if you are not. I know this sounds so cliche but you will know when it's right. Just because you've been with the same guy for the past 3 years does not justify you having sex with him. You wait until YOU are ready. Becoming sexually active opens up a whole new ball park to your relationship. You have to understand and know the consequences of having sex. Possible pregnancy, STD's, emotional attachment and most importantly you and how you feel. I would not rush into to having sex. You wait for the right time for you. Good Luck!
2007-03-23 07:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by alexbeauty333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think about it , if you want to do it you have to be sure and really you are going to now the exact time , I have a boyfriend for 4 years and i never feel ready now after that relationship i started other one and i really don't have any doubt it was the right time , so don't pressure yourself and if you feel good with him and also you love him .... trust me is going to be beautiful
2007-03-23 07:30:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gut is telling you not to go through with it, then don't have sex. Sex has a lot of consequences that come with it: emotional attachments, sexually transmitted diseases/infections, pregnancy. Make sure you are ready and if you don't want to have sex, then your boyfriend should understand and be ok with it.
2007-03-23 07:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Alexandra S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel deep down that you are not ready..then don't do it! There is no rush for you to do anything. If he is meant to be your first then you will know at that time. You will not have this feeling of "i dont know" or "im not sure" trust me, you will know. Your body is your treasure. When it's the right time..you'll know.
Take Care :)
2007-03-23 08:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by ~* 3 Months Prego*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is if you have second thoughts don't have sex yet. If your not ready, your just not, don't rush it. You will know when you are ready.
2007-03-23 07:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by troublz1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look thats a big thing rite dier u should think wt u want to do kause if u do da that aint komin bk for real bt thats all up to u i think thats nt any bodys business
2007-03-23 07:30:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it do it until your ready if he loves you so much he will wait until your ready don't jump to it you'll do it eventually and if he's pushing you to do it then maybe that's all he wants do it with someone especial because your giving him something especial. DON'T DO IT WAIT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 07:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by claudiasulecio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS YOU HAVE GOT TO THINK ABOUT HOW SENSITIVE YOU ARE BECAUSE WHAT IF YOU AND YOUR BOYFRIEND BREAK UP?.....YOUR GOING TO BE SPRUNG OVER HIM AND YOU CAN'T TAKE BACK WHAT YOU GAVE UP!!! SO MAKE SURE THAT YOU WON'T REGRET IT NO MATTER WHAT MAY HAPPEN!!!
2007-03-23 08:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by cookiemonster31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋