I have been apart from my x for 7 months now we have a child together and I have 2 from a pervious relationship. He is seeing other women. Every time he call or texes me to ask about my boys he always end up talking **** to me about my sex life and who I am dating. He is now assuming that I am dating some one cz I am not calling him or leaving him any messages like I use to. I am try to move on just like he told me to. I try not to talk to him every time he calls. My question is: Y is he saying all this bad thing about me???? Y his he trying to hurt me???? I never did any thing when we were together to have him talk to me in this manner…….
2007-03-23 06:41:07 · 9 answers · asked by Natural 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not seeing any one I am trying to get myself together for my kids and my self. I really don't have time or money to be going out. I just don't want to bring any one around my boys. I just don't know who is telling him thing about me. The bad part is I am just at home with my boys......
2007-03-23 06:59:42 · update #1
Sound's to me that he is trying to blame the kid's all on you like he has nothing to do with them. And is trying to make you look like a hoe he thinks that it is alright for him to play around but he doesn't want you to. If I were you I would find some one else to make him mad.
2007-03-23 06:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do believe it is time for you to stop receiving messages from this guy even though you guys were an item at one point
he is treating you like crap. Let him know that you will no longer be texing him or iving out personal info. It is none of his concern if you are dating or not he sounds like a jerk and the only way he may listen is to completely stop communication unless it is about your mutual child. If it goes beyond that just turn off your phone.
God Bless and Good Luck.
2007-03-23 13:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you certainly have been a busy little batch receptical havent you? Try creating a stable environment for you and your kids. Ignore this person and truly move on. I dont know what kind of support he is giving you but for goodness sake stop making bad decisions.
2007-03-23 13:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by Devdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you hit the nail on the head - HE'S TRYING TO HURT YOU. He may be doing in subconsciously, but he's still doing it. Tell him if he can't treat you better, and agree to leave your personal life out of the conversations that they will need to stop. You do not have to put up with it. If he can't do this, then he'll need to keep his texts (texting only) about your son and nothing else.
2007-03-23 13:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Dino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he is a big azzhole and he knows he is fooling around and u are with your lil boys being a mom and doing the right thing he seems like a emotional and mental abuser so if he keeps persisting or get more abusive with u go slap a restraining rder on this old stinky turd!!
2007-03-23 14:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not be hung up on someone with a loser mentality and have so much to lose in the long run, he is aloser and a control freak get rid of him and move on,good luck
2007-03-23 13:56:30 · answer #6 · answered by delmy d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. he is just angry, don't pay him any mind and try not to let it upset you. it will pass. mine did, he used to make me cry, tell me iam a terrible mother and a slut and so on. but eventually when i didn't play into it anymore he stopped. plus it was affecting our son.
good luck!
2007-03-23 13:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by Orleanslady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WWomen like you amaze me.... And not in a good way. Your completely unstable and have kids. Stop worrying about him and worry about your kids.. Ahhhhh !
2007-03-23 13:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by dralls4lyf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a different situation....handle it carefully and be frank and open to discuss this
2007-03-23 13:58:32 · answer #9 · answered by Pan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋