2007-03-23 06:10:33 · 18 answers · asked by Charlebois S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's no reason to change your behavior. You're his wife; unless he does something that makes you suspicious, then it's business as usual. If he begins to act strangely, then you confront him, not her. Even if she is the problem, he's the one's who's responsible to you.
First and foremost, don't look for trouble where it doesn't exist.
2007-03-23 06:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't take any jealous road. That is the fastest way to look like an insecure, and a complete idiot. Just be a nice person. Be friendly and genuine. Put all those dumb stories about the boss chasing the secretary around, out of your head. Let your husband conduct his business without any flack from you about her.
2007-03-23 13:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be calm and do no accuse him of anything. You may be suprised by just how faithful a man can be when a woman trusts him. Real men are honorable by nature and would respect their vows no matter. If you begin with threats like some of the suggestions... you will anger him because you will hurt him by letting him know that you believe he is not TRUSTWORTHY! Much like a woman needs to know and hear that she is loved...A man needs to know that he is trusted and respected! Unless he gives you a very clear reason not to trust him, I would maintain my dignity and hold my tounge.
2007-03-23 13:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by lovegodlots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a creap? Does/did he cheat? Do you have ANY reason to worry? If any of those answers were "yes".....then have a talk with him...and let him know you're concerned, but don't give him ultimatiums....
If any/all of those answers are "no"....get yourself some counseling, and stay away from the office until you get your head straight. This has nothing to do with the woman, it's not her fault she's gorgeous.....
Even if you answered yes....it doesn't mean this gorgeous woman has any interest in your loser husband.
2007-03-23 13:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by salemgirl1972 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep a high profile. It's harder for a woman to sleep with a married man, if they actually KNOW the wife as a person and not an obstacle.
Don't go overboard. Don't crawl in a hole either.
2007-03-23 13:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just be who you are. There's no need to alter your behavior just because your husband got a new secretary.
2007-03-23 16:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her if she knows anyone in the office that is flirting with your man. Because your the type of women they will come up there and beat the piss-poor sh!t out of any women that even looks at him the wrong way. That should make her atleast think twice about doing anything with him. And you might want to throw in ... "I bit the last b!tches eyebrow off..."
GOOD LUCK !
2007-03-23 13:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by dralls4lyf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be normal show no fear because although she is beautiful you should not be threatened not unless you know your husband will cheat then you shouldn't be with him in the first place. anyways, if you do show fear or any sign of abnormalness (if that is a word), if she wants him she will get him because she knows that it can happen just by your reaction. i tell you this by personal experience on both ends of being the wife and being the beautiful receptionist.
2007-03-23 13:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by Blessed and Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a psycho bltch and keep asking... (everyday) so your husband will be irritated and be tempted to sleep with the sexytary... smell his dlck everytime he comes home from work.... show up at his work... and confront the girl even though there's nothing happening.
or
just be the same wife he married... and trust your man.
2007-03-23 13:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you act now, just keep your eyes and ears open. watch for changes in is behavior and dress, work hours
2007-03-23 13:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by sue h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋