My daughter came back from a visit with my Husband wearing the other woman's daughter's boots. The same other woman that he, all at the same time, has denied having, claims to have broken up with, says that they are friends.
How do I know they are her bootS? Her name was written in large print on the outside of them.
Options:
1) Ignore it
2) throw them away
3) send them back with my daughter with a note saying that they are very cute
4) Buy her other boots
5) Your thoughts.
It is just so disrespectful and sadistic, isn't it?
2007-03-23 05:17:04 · 8 answers · asked by jazz41 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we are separated.
2007-03-23 05:27:11 · update #1
I'm confused...your husband is with another woman?? If that is the case, who cares about the boots!
I hope you've filed for a divorce.
2007-03-23 05:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You do not know the motivation or intention for certain, so it is hard to judge whether is was disrespectful or sadistic. I would ask some questions.
If your husband cannot break things off with this other woman and it is important to you that he is faithful, then you may want to look at leaving.
2007-03-23 12:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by blazebrightartist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds as though you need to divorce this man if he already moved on with his life. Do not say anything negative about the other women in front of your child. I would just tell your daughter to take the boots back and only wear them over her Dad's house. The other women definitely wants a reaction out of you. I would act as though it did not bother you even though it did. She wants you to feel bad do not allow her to do that to you. Just send them back and tell your daughter to wear them over her Dads.
2007-03-23 12:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm going to assume your now divorced, You could have ten boyfriends by now. So he's a liar if he cheated on you he'll cheat on her. and so the saga goes.
I'm going to assume your daughter is young, so I would be the bigger person, if their trying to get under your skin and you say something they won.
And keep this in mind your flashing your name all over the place every time your daughter goes to visit.
That's something no girlfriend can out do
Hope this helps
2007-03-23 12:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by walker9842 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. Be an adult and don't make a mountain out of a mole hill.
2007-03-23 12:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 1 ignore it.... She is trying to get a rise out of you... don't let it work. Turn the other cheek... it will drive her crazy that yiu don't think she is worth responding to.... hehehehhe
2007-03-23 12:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply throw them in the trash and tell him.
2007-03-23 12:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is her name DKNY?
2007-03-23 12:22:51 · answer #8 · answered by ratdog 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋