Premature Ejaculation?

Question

Ok i'm 20 years old and I had sex like more than 20 times. I'm not noob with it but i have problems. I had 4 girlfriends and all the time i had sex, i had premature ejaculations. I can only control for about 10 minutes and gone. How i solved the problem is I took viagra and I can prolong upto 30 minutes. But I don't want to take these pills because of side effects. At 1st time, I thought my problem might be solved if I had sex more and more. But it didn't solve out. Please if there's anybody who can solve this problem, plz give me some suggestion. I really appreciate it. I want to have sex for like 30-45 minutes before i ejaculate without the help of any pills.

Answer 1

i agree masturbate
but if you need to kknow th best way to do it
masturbate until you are about to ejaculate
when you feel it about to get there
stop
and i mean stop until that urge goes
then start again this will help you realize when your
going to fast or slow
whether your to excited or not
but if you learn where you pressure can be
while having sex it may mean taking a few minutes to
pleasure her in other ways
the other ways is once you have ejaculated
while masturbating start again as soon as you can and
then again and again
as this help you learn how to multi-orgasm
and that means even if you shot to soon you can start back up in seconds / minutes and pleasure you and her more
good luck trust me it works been there

Answer 2

Being able to have sex for 10 minutes before ejaculation is not considered PE. In fact, it's probably on the high-duration side, especially for somebody that's 20.

But if you want to go longer your want to go longer. So you can masturbate before, as others have suggested. There are also creams that desensitize the penis, hopefully without the side effects you have with the Viagra.

Or you can just work on slowing things down. Learn to recognize the point before ejaculation becomes inevitable, and stop moving or pull out completely. You can use this time to please your lover with kisses, fondling, or even go down on her. When you're sure you're under control, enter her again.

But above all, remember that your goal is to have fun together, not to go for any specific amount of time.

Answer 3

To learn ejaculatory control:

* Don't use drugs or alcohol. They're distracting and they interfere with the self-awareness crucial to learning ejaculatory control.
* Appreciate whole-body sensuality. Men often think sex happens only in the penis and only during intercourse. That view is a one-way ticket to uncontrolled ejaculation (not to mention erection problems, and women with those proverbial headaches). The best sex involves head-to-toe arousal. Men learning how to approach -- but not arrive at -- their point of no return, need to appreciate whole-body sensuality, the pleasure potential in every square inch of the body. Whole-body sensuality releases tension. Tense bodies that have no other outlet often find release through involuntary ejaculation. But as you learn to appreciate sensual pleasure from head to toe, whole-body arousal takes the pressure off your penis, and you last longer.
* Whole-body sensuality means relaxation, but the "relaxation" involved in great sex is not the kind that includes an easy chair, a six pack, and Monday Night Football. It's the kind you feel after a hot bath or a good massage. In fact, bathing or showering together before lovemaking can help men relax and appreciate whole-body sensuality -- and last longer.
* Breathe deeply. One very easy way to stay relaxed while making love is to breathe deeply. The body has a natural tendency to breathe deeply during sex. But many men fight it. They think they should stay in control by not breathing deeply and making the little love-moan sounds that go along with it. But when men work to control their breathing, they often sacrifice ejaculatory control. Try breathing deeply. Let your breath go. Many men are amazed how much this one little change improves their ejaculatory control.
* Start with masturbation with a dry hand. By varying how you caress your penis, you can learn to stay highly aroused for quite a while without coming. When you feel yourself approaching your point of no return, simply back off a bit, strokestroke yourself more gently or not at all, and stay aroused without ejaculating. Then as you feel yourself getting a little distance from your point of no return, return to more vigorous self-stimulation. Repeat this several times over several sessions. Approach your point of no return, then back off. For most men, it doesn't take long to develop good ejaculatory control while alone.
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Answer 4

Masturbate first...If you know you're going to have sex that night, masturbate in the shower right before.
Or...you could always go for a second round of sex?!