me and my husband have ben trying to conceive, this is only our first month. my period is due in 3 days and im going crazy!! i cant take it. i have cramps and i feel like im going to get my period so i feel kind of disapointed but then i keep telling myself it could be pregnancy cramps and i get my hopes up. i dont want to waste a pregnancy test but i really want to take one but i know it will just come up negative. im going insane i dont how im going through go through this month after month. how do you do it?
2007-03-23 04:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by omama 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
it's not easy ( we've been ttc for 16 months)
i could say it gets easier, but it's always disappointing to take a negative test. I can say that as time goes on, you stress about it less. It was harder in the beginning, and stress and disappointment every month. Then you realize, all that stress makes it a million times worse. It's hard to see your monthly friend, but it will happen when it's supposed to happen. That's what I keep telling myself. Its just not time yet, and when it's time for you, it'll happen.
good luck.
2007-03-23 05:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a year now. I understand 100%... For me it seems like I am going to spend the rest of my life in 2 week periods... waiting for ovulation and then in the other 2ww waiting to see if it will + this time instead of -. The past few months we have been trying to not let it stress us out and just going with the flow. For me though the worst part is always seeing that negative and feeling so depressed... I usually let myself drown in my self pity for a few days and then as soon as AF leaves I pick myself back up and say let's try this again... Now i just expect AF and then take it from there...I never try to get my hopes up anymore because it makes the negative that much worse...
2007-03-23 05:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Pagli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm due for my period tomorrow and I have been going crazy also...I haven't had any cramps that I usually have before my period, but I had some last week. Hopefully in a couple days I will find out some good results.
Good luck!
2007-03-23 05:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by ☆Soon 2 be Mom of 2☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...thankfully its been a while since I was ttc....but I remember those days leading up to getting my period (or not) were just awful. I just dealt with it by being gentle on myself, and trying to find something to pamper myself with. If, I was not lucky that month I let myself wallow in the disapointment for a while....then just mentally shook myself and picked myself up to get back on the awful ttc merry-go-round again.
2007-03-23 05:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by psychokitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me 3 months to conceive. I found out on x-mas eve. I would by the 3 pack of clear blue easy for like 20.00 rather than just the 1 stick for 12.00. Good luck to you
2007-03-23 05:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called luck. (if it is meant for you, it will happen to you)
We only tryed one month ...and I didn't even think it would actually happen the first monht ...so I didn't even wait that badly... I was supposed to have my period on a monday ...and on the friday after that I was like ....Isn't my period late already ...so I took a test and it came positive...
Don't worry too much, If you are meant to have a baby, you'll get it just on the right time!!! God Bless!
2007-03-23 06:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is hard, and very emotional. You need to try not to stress though. Stress is a big factor in a lot of infertility.
2007-03-23 05:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by haylsin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I did the every other day method.Every other day we had sex and presto....pregnant. IT works...try it!
2007-03-23 05:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by CalifGirl! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋