Someone please tell me why the excuse is always "What if you wait until you are married and the sex is no good?" How would you know it was no good if you never experienced good or bad before? You wouldn't have anything to compare it to. Wow, what a concept! Perhaps that's why God says to save yourself until you're married. No ignorant answers please!
2007-03-23 04:55:01 · 5 answers · asked by lsutiger4god 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Doesn't practice make perfect?
2007-03-23 05:02:13 · update #1
Even if you do wait you're going to start thinking Damn man I wonder what this person is like, and it's up to you at that point to hold your promise. But thinking it is just as bad as the action right?
2007-03-23 05:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by Great one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need prior experience with something to determine you don't like it. Basically, ever had a vegetable the first time and decided it was disgusting? But, you've never had it before so how do you know it's good or bad? Having comparable experiences only allows you to gauge one experience in relation to the other. So you can say 'well the second time was better (or worse)'. However, this does not mean you do not form your own conclusions on first experiences. We do this all the time, when we see strangers in our everyday lives we subconsciously file them away as 'like, don't like, neither'.
People say they don't want their marriage sex to be the first time because they want to avoid the awkwardness of not knowing what to do, or how to approach it, etc. Even though it's quite natural and really isn't rocket science. This excuse just happens to double as an excuse for premarital sex.
2007-03-23 12:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Shades of Green 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um they would know good and bad cause they would have sex not have not have an orgasim and not like it. Good goddess such is the way with the world
These eight words the rede fullfill harm ye none do what ye will
2007-03-23 12:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not sleep with some one else any way? every animal in this world has sex with more then one partner. why cant we whats so different? you might end up having an affair if you only ever have one lover because you'll end up wondering what its like with someone else.
2007-03-23 12:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by dragontears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We`re horny we do it, we protect ourselves we do it.
2007-03-23 12:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋