my friends boyfriend is getting a hotel and he said that my sister and her boyfriend can go and i can go but my boyfriend cant because my friend doesnt want me to be with him because she doesnt like him. so i told them that i didnt want to go becaue i would feel lecft out when they would be cackin and now they're mad at me.what should i do???
2007-03-23 04:54:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Follow your heart. I had a problem with one of my friends not wanting me to be with my man. I followed my heart which was to be with him and we have a awesome relationship. If your friend loves you she would accept the person you are with and stand behind you if you are happy with him.
2007-03-23 05:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by usnsweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait, your sister gets to bring her boyfriend, but you can't, because your friend thinks she has the right to pick your boyfriend for you?
Have I got that right?
And they're mad because you won't be a fifth wheel, when they're with their Special Friends?
(Uh, never heard 'cackin' before, but I guess I know what that refers to.)
Let them be mad. Have a nice time with your boyfriend.
Next time the topic comes up, tell your "friend" that you don't pick her boyfriends for her, she should respect your right to choose your own.
Someone who thinks they have the right to control your life is NOT your friend.
2007-03-23 07:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... Tough one. I think your friend is being a little selfish. A true friend likes whoever you are with regardless of their person feelings. She needs to understand that you like this guy or else you wouldnt be with him and she needs to trust your judgement. Good luck
2007-03-23 05:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If their willing to leave your boyfriend out and expect you to understand it then they should understand why your going to leave them out. Just explain it to them and maybe ask them how they would feel if you did the same to them.
2007-03-23 05:38:32 · answer #4 · answered by gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats ridicuous if I were you I wouldnt go. Thats very rude for them to invite your sister and her bf and invite you but sy your bf cant come. You should be the one thats pissed not them. Tell them how unnfair you think that is.
2007-03-23 05:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to go then don't.. If their your real friends they would understand no matter what. Like I said before if their you real friends.
2007-03-23 05:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sasay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* dont pay attention to them there stupid *
2007-03-23 05:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋