i had a very vivid dream that my husband was cheating on me. i walked in on them and threw her out the window. then i proceeded to stomp and kick my husband's manhood. it seemed so real and i woke up scared and crying. what does it mean? i don't really think he's cheating but this dream was so real. what can i do? i can't concentrate at work today and it's all i can think about. help!
2007-03-23 04:36:34 · 9 answers · asked by missi 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i just want to know if there is some sort of interpretation out there. i know it probably doesn't mean he's cheating. is there another meaning? it's just very strange that i can't stop thinking about it. it's the dream itself that's bothering me not what happened in it.
2007-03-23 04:46:33 · update #1
also we are trying to buy a house for the first time. can that have something to do with it?
2007-03-23 04:58:09 · update #2
this is soo weird i am also buyin a house and havin dreams my fiance is cheatin even tho he wouldnt do that to me.
I think it is that were both a bit scared about moving and being really commited to each other and it may be that were worried that somehow things will go wrong. But be positive they say that what you dream of is the opposite to wat will happen. Good luck with moving. It is so stressfull.
2007-03-23 05:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by sarah b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have both had those kinds of dreams.... It's usually helpful to discuss it with your spouse (at least it's helpful for us).
It's most likely based in a sense of insecurity or fear you may be holding. Anyone who values their marriage a great deal holds a fear of losing it. So a dream like this may happen now and then.
Talk with your spouse. Tell him about it. If he's a good husband, he'll give you some reassurance. If the dream holds more meaning than just exorcising a fear, talking about it may help you to find out if the dream is based upon more than just your own fear.
2007-03-23 04:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shaman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your dream is not about your husband at all. It might be concerning a hard decision you need to make in your life and you are afraid of the consequences. The stomping means you are trying to punish yourself for not going forward. Weigh the pros and cons of your choices and go with the one that has the most pros and stand by your decision. Just an educated guess. Good luck.
2007-03-23 04:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by NONE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dreams never mean exactly what they dream.
Sex means Performance
Kicking-Damanging something permanent
Window-Preview-like a picture show
Your stressed about your your performance in life that is coming up. A big change, something that will upset your permanent environment like a job change, a move, something happening in your like that alters your daily life. You need to approach these new changes with calm and understanding or your life will end up in chaos.
Dreams our forms of messages from our subconscious and don't forget you play every person in your dreams
2007-03-23 04:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had dreams like that before, it probably means that in the back of ur mind ur scared that he might cheat, just tell him about the dream and see how he reacts, or u can just forget about it cuz everyone dreams crazy stuff sometimes that doesnt mean anything... however, if u start to dream like that a lot then go buy a dream book and read what it says
2007-03-23 04:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by 6cowgirl11 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was just a dream. The reason why you cant stop thinking about it, is becuase it seemed so real and it would be horrible for you if it happened in real life. It will pass, just forget it, like so many other dreams we have had in our lives.
2007-03-23 04:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is all abt dream,so that i can understand howmuch ur loving ur husband.
sometimes so much love and in that some suspecisious nature leads to this dream
dont worry u love ur husband so u trust him .
do one thing u tell to ur husband , if he laughs on that and says i am not able to go with u only then how can i think about another one
then no prob u can trust him
and u also stress free
so now smile
2007-03-23 05:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by Raj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mean nothing. It is just a bad dream and you remember it.
2007-03-23 04:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it could show repressed anger
2007-03-23 05:27:18 · answer #9 · answered by chuck h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋