When I was 13 I was alone at a party and my best friend's 17 year old brother who I had only met once seduced me up to his bedroom and we had sex. I loved the feel ecpecially the excitment of doing it with soemone I didnt know. I have had sex three times and that was the best. I am now 14.
2007-03-23 04:27:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yes Like you it was at a party and I had to mucht to drink and I woke up the next morning naked in bed with another girl who was also naked. I was 15 and I regret. My friends told me that we did it front of people too. The girl didnt get pregnant which is plain luck.
2007-03-23 06:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by Martin A Neville 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but most certainly not at your age or even close to your age. When I did, I had, had to much to drink (even though that is not a good excuse). Afterwards, I realized what I had done and feared that I would end up getting a disease. At your age, maybe you are having a "daddy complex" (where you didn't get enough love from your father so you look for love from men in the form of sex) this is a terrible cycle and it only ends badly for you. No one will ever want to settle down with someone who sleeps around with anyone just for the excitment of it. The 17 year old "friend" was not a good friend of your brothers if he suduced you into have sexual intercourse with him. I do hope that you realize that your body is worth something more than just pleasing a man before it is too late. You don't want to end up being a single mother at 14 and you certainly don't want to die of AIDS before you even get to reach 21. I wish you the best of luck & hope you can find a good role model to help guide you in a better direction.
2007-03-23 04:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mom of two boys 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, what you enjoyed was not sex, it was rape, statutory rape. If I were you, and more mature, I would tell an adult, and pursue this. There is NO excuse for a 17 year old man, who knows better, "seducing" a 13 year old girl to his bedroom for sex. There is something seriously wrong with this. While it may have felt good physically, this is sick. You will probably figure that out when you're older. Honestly, you're too young to be having sex. You're not responsible enough to have it. While that may sound annoying, it involves too many people, you're not just putting your own comfort at jeopardy.
2007-03-23 08:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by sestantonse58 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, yes I have in my younger days. I fully regret it. It is not a smart thing to do. Yeah, it was exciting. Yeah, it was different. But when you do stuff like that, you are putting yourself at risk for so many things.I had a one night stand when I was 16, and I gotta say, up until I got with my DBF/kids father, I always thought that was the "best". However, I got pregnant by the boy-emphasis on *boy*! And I never got a chance to tell him. Cuz I only remember his first name. By the grace of God, I miscarried at 5 weeks gestation. And also by the grace of God, every time I have gotten tested for HIV, Chlamydia, gonnorrhea, syphillis, HPV, etc...I have tested negative. I did have vaginal trichanomas once, but I was being monogomous with my then boyfriend, and he wasn't being monogomous with me. I was 17.
You are sooooo YOUNG! Please reconsider being sexually active until you are more mature. If you have to have that feeling, there is nothing wrong with spending quality time with yourself. You can't get an STD or pregnant that way.
2007-03-23 04:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by MamiZorro2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I hope that you will reconsider this rather risky behavior before you end up pregnant or with a sexually transmitted disease like AIDS.
And not that I want to scare the living crap out of you, but when you have sex with a stranger, how do you know this person isn't planning to do sick and sadistic things to you? You don't. He could have sex with you and then kill you. He could have sex with you and then hold you down and let all their buddies have sex with you. You could be drugged, raped, beaten, sold into a life of prostitution. These are just some of the bad things that could happen to a stupid little girl who thinks it is fun to have sex with strangers.
It sounds like you have been lucky so far. So, whether it thrills you or not, I do urge you to stop being stupid. If you feel you need sex to feel good about yourself, please seek counseling, and know that you are too good to let some stupid boy(s) or men use you.
Godspeed.
PS What I have told you is EXACTLY what I would tell my own niece, daughter, or friend.
2007-03-23 04:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by museumdoll 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well, yes, I have to say I had. I was in a similar situationsuch as yours except I am a guy, but I am bisexual and I had sex with a guy that I just saw at a party. He was tan, tall, slightly muscular build, and brown hair. I couldn't help myself. So I started talking to him and stuff and then I just sorta stared or gazed at his body, and then all of a sudden he started rubbing my chest then down into my legs.
So it got kinda weird after that, I went to the hosts bedroom at the party and me and him took off like all our clothes and he started messaging me, and then well we had sex...
So I guess yes..
2007-03-23 07:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow 13 and sleeping with guys you dont know one of two things will happen to you besides having a nasty reputation
1. You risk getting pregnant by these random guys you sleep with and do you think they are going to want to stick with you if your pregnant hell no they hardly no you and will be down the road.
2. You risk those nasty STD's that are out there.
Im telling you if you were my daughter Id beat the living hell out of you for disrespecting yourself, putting yourself at risk, and just being plain sleezy.
2007-03-23 06:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by lilshedevil 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is great. You should be really proud of yourself.
You have no business having sex at age 14. You sound really un-classy and immature. Grow up.
If you keep it up, you will end up pregnant or with a disease.
2007-03-23 04:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have also had sex with someone that I had known for less than a day. However, I do regret losing my virginity that way. Especially when I realize what I could have exposed myself to.
2007-03-23 04:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sure, when I lived in Chicago I used to go to swingers parties and would have sex with 9 or 10 people I didn't know - fun and very exciting with others watching.
2007-03-23 05:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋