Which is more greedy? To be bisexual or to be heterosexual with multiple girlfriends or boyfriends at once?

Question

Or to be a heterosexual in an extramarital affair? This is a stupid question in response to someone else's stupid question.
People should stop making generalizations.

Answer 1

Yeah, greedy isn't really how I think about it.

I think sexual liberation is one's choice.

If you are in a relationship, it is honorable to let the person know what's going on outside the relationship if you care about the. It's just common human courtesy.

Answer 2

LOL! Great question. Here are my answers: Bisexuality isn't necessarily greedy as long as you can be completely faithful to whomever you are with at the time, male or female. Heteros with multiple girlfriends or boyfriends at the same time is greedy and could be unsafe if you are having unprotected sex with all of them. Heterosexual in an extramarital affair is just wrong and selfish.

Answer 3

I don't see bisexuality as being selfish or greedy at all. I think bisexual people have the right idea. They've opened up their options...it's like Baskin Robbins.....they can have all 31 flavors if they want. And honestly, being heterosexual with more than one boyfriend or girlfriend isn't really greedy or selfish as long as everyone involved is fully aware of the situation. Now, being married and having an affair....that's selfish!

Answer 4

I get what you're doing, but it still makes me cringe to read the question, because there are so many people who believe that.

Bisexuality is merely being capable of being sexual with both genders. Besides that, there is no one way to be bisexual- people try all sorts of configurations as to what best fits them- celibate, monogamous, polyamorous, serially faithful, whatever.

And I never use the word "greed" in tandem with relationships. I think that a monogamous love is greedy in itself- you want that person all for you, right?- so polyamory isn't someone trying to have their cake and eat it, too. It's about people who, for whatever reason, need multiple people to fulfill their lives, where most of us only need one special person. If polyamorists can make it work, I can only applaud them. Of course, polyamory being the state of everyone knowing about the relationships- affairs definitely do not count, as they are lying to one or more people.

Hope that helps.

Answer 5

Greedy! I love that concept applied to sex. Answering this question is like answering this multiple choice puzzler.

If you have sex 2 times a week with one partner and are sexually satisfied and Mary has sex 6 times a week with multiple partners and is sexually satisfied, which one of you is more satisfied?
A. You are more satisfied.
B. Mary is more satisfied.
C. You are equally satisfied.
D. Neither of you are actually satisfied.

If your answer is anything other then C would you please provide evidence of how you were able to quantify the intangible for me.

Answer 6

how do you term greedy anyway? if say, a hetrosexual is in a relationship but wants to date a bi, that person has to lay down the conditions of any potential relationships isn't it? is that considered greedy and dishonest if both parties know what they are doing?

Answer 7

Uh, I think it should be obvious that the greedy part depends on the number of partners, not the sexual orientation.

But thoses are all bad choices to make that you listed.

Answer 8

The second category you named of course. Being Bisexual does not infer anything about your ability to remain monogamous.

Answer 9

Greedy would not be my choice of words.
If you are in a committed relationship, it is selfish to cheat regardless of gender preference.

My only exception would be if your mate was unconscious with no hope of recovery.

Answer 10

Being bisexual, I've never had more than one partner at a time. I'm a serial monogamist.