and didnt tell you till recently would you be mad or understanding why she did so without your knowlede or to make plans?
2007-03-23 04:10:29 · 16 answers · asked by maddy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Women feel like it's my body so why should I have to tell the Daddy if I'm pregnant but it's maybe your body but The Baby is both of you'll.
Yes to your question.
Good luck
2007-03-23 04:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by letigutierrez77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The father should ALWAYS have a choice wheather it is about abortion, adoption, or anything else. When I was a baby my dad had to fight to keep me, because my mother wanted to give me up for adoption and if he hadn't I don't know where I would be right now. The point is that the child is partly the fathers too even if it isn't growing inside of him.
2007-03-23 11:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Socially Awkward Penguin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy, but I still want to answer this question! I am 100 % against Abortion!!! It is murder!!! That poor innocent child growing in the mothers stomache and it doesn't know that it's about to be killed in a horrible way! Do you know that they suck the baby's brains out to abort it?! That's horrible!!! Any way to answer your question- I would be mad at anyone that had an abortion!
2007-03-23 11:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am not a male but if someone did that to a male in my family i would be furious. how do you know that the guy wouldnt have taken care of the baby even though the girl didnt. it was very wrong of her to have an abortion and not tell her boyfriend.
2007-03-23 11:28:25 · answer #4 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be pissed, I mean who is she to make that decision by herself?
If this is your case, don't tell him, you cannot absolve your conscience at his expense and expect to still have a good relationship. This is an issue where trust goes out the door, because you kept a huge thing from him. If he finds out you kept it from him for a long period it might be a deal breaker.
2007-03-23 11:19:54 · answer #5 · answered by Luis 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As the father I can see how you would be angry...but if she was determined to do it then there wouldhave been nothing you can do to stop her. Men get screwd both ways...if she aborts they never know their child...if she has it and they don't want it they are financially responsible till its 18.
2007-03-23 11:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An abortion is a tragic thing, and for many women, it is very traumatic even if they had the abortion believing it was for the best. Instead of being angry with your friend, please be compassionate. She needs love, support, and your friendship right now.
Godspeed.
2007-03-23 11:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by museumdoll 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if I were a guy, I would be mad. That is a huge deception in a relationship and speaking as someone who values honesty I would be very hurt.
2007-03-23 11:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and I would be absolutely furious! That is your child she killed, too. Even if she didn't want to care for it after its birth, you could have taken full custody! That is irresponsible, and a terrible thing to be dishonest about.
2007-03-23 11:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kellie R 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wouldnt care, its too late to care about it anyways right. It should have been discussed before though, but whats done is done.
2007-03-23 11:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Kenneth W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋