do you think that getting married is better than staying single?
why or why not?
2007-03-23 03:58:14 · 9 answers · asked by wordsofapoet 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Getting married actually means u know where u stand.Where a person cares so much for another person that he/she doesn't want to let the other go away..they get married..they form a bond to be together forever.The give a proper name to their relationship because marriage is all about families...having a family..making their families happy..being a part of another family.I know i'll get married..and i pray that it goes really beautiful for me...as beautiful as life is...
2007-03-23 04:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
One of the greatest causes of unhappiness, nay, misery, in the world, is the steady adherence to the superstition that two young people who feel, when in each other's company, the sexual excitement that is often mistaken for love, must marry. It is folly for which thousands upon thousands are constantly paying a most fearful price. Love! Why, love means sacrifice. It means wisdom. Many a man for love has remained a bachelor all his life.
Nature has been decreed that certain dispositions will antagonize certain other dispositions. Marriage is often so hasty that these faulty dispositions are not discovered until after marriage, when it is too late to retreat, no matter how much it may be desired.
1. Two people of similar complexion and temperament should never marry. If they do it will prove failure.
2. Two tall, slim people or two short, heavy-set people should not marry.
3. A nervous, fidgety person should never marry another nervous person.
4. A man should never marry a woman who is given to finding fault, or who is peevish and "cranky", or who scolds her little brothers and sisters.
5. A woman should never marry a man who is naturally inclined to be arrogant and cruel, or who is inordinately selfish.
To dress extravagantly is a blot upon any woman's character. When the activity of the mind is taken up with finery the soul grows pinched and lean, the mind fails to develop, and such a woman cannot make a decent partner for any sensible man.
So, too, should no girl think of accepting any young man for a lover who is addicted to the use of liquor, or who spends his money in speculation or in fast living. Shun such as you would an idiot or fool.
The most important of these is the keeping alive and at its best the sexual desires. This should be held sacred. Constant or uninterrupted indulgence is sure to destroy its enjoyment and destroy happiness in both.
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Women hope men will change after marriage but they don’t; men hope women won’t change but they do.
Examining your Heart's true desire may lead you to some surprising conclusions.
Sincerely,
Superdave
2007-03-23 11:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by SuperDave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you are. There are plenty of people out there that are better off staying single. You get the benefit of knowing no matter what you have your own space and you can do what you want, when you want. You have as much control over your life as you possibly could.
Marriage is definately different. You have to find the way to make it work with another person involved. But you get the benefit (most of the time) of knowing you will have someone to go to sleep with every night, and wake up with every morning. Your house will never be empty. You have someone to get your coffee in the morning and pick up your dirty laundry when you leave it on the floor. I love the fact that no matter what I have a "cheerleader" other then my family, someone that is here by choice and loves me in spite of all my flaws and the same goes for him.
I don't think there is a true answer to this question since it depends completely on who you are as a person and no one else can answer it for you.
2007-03-23 11:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on the person and their beliefs. Some people are truly happier single, others need a person around. For me, I love being married. I married my husband at 18 and still think its the best choice I've ever made. He's there for me no matter what. We are committed to each other, only each other.
2007-03-23 11:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOT to marry! It's an outdated and meaningless custom. Men and women alike are perfectly capable of living without each other. Why make the effort when there are better and more important things to do?
2007-03-23 15:18:11 · answer #5 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think getting married is better to have alegal realtionship but also it depends on the person you are married to if he was bad then staying single is till u find the right one for u
2007-03-23 11:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by oh no 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Married is better,you have someone who loves you with all their heart and shares their life with you. And visi versi of course.
2007-03-23 11:33:24 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Completely depends on if you find the right person or not. Both lifestyles have their pro's and con's.
2007-03-23 11:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..Married is better..
2007-03-23 11:02:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋