She wants me to become sexual with her...in a way I want to do it, but in a way I keep holding back..What if I really like doing it and don't want to stop?
2007-03-23 03:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by Torey♥ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you should explore it. Just know there is nothing like it. A woman knows what to do, how to do it, and when to do it.
My feeling is you will not regret trying. Like others said your in control of what you do and don't do, so have fun and stop when you want and go when you want. Good Luck hun!!
2007-03-23 04:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by Leesa K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let it ride out. You're already at the point where you think you want to do it. Most likely if you're afraid that you might like it, then you're going to like it. When we feel something in our gut, usually it's the truth. And if you're afraid of putting the label of Lesbian along with your name, don't stress it!!! As long as you know who you are, that's all that counts. So I say go for it, maybe your friendship will flourish into something beautiful.
2007-03-23 14:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by graciefaith1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the problem with not stopping is? First accept that you have feelings for other women. There isn't anything else healthy you can do about those desires. Then be intimate with her. If you never want to, and don't, stop then I guess you're one of the lucky ones who found a good partner for life.
2007-03-23 11:00:54 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for it girl!
its your own choice and no one else's. whats wrong with not wanting to stop? if you like whatever you're doing then why stop? i think that to a certain extent, if you aren't sure about your sexuality, you should explore...
2007-03-23 11:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by phantom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go for it, you are only young for a while. Still at it in my 30's and love it
2007-03-23 16:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend you are nervous, but would like to try. Tell her you want to "take it slow". I am sure she will understand. Good for you if you really like doing it.
2007-03-23 11:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by Supercell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're afraid to try it because you're afraid you're going to really like it?
There are worse things in life than finding something you really like.
2007-03-23 11:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
what is it that you are afraid of? again, you need to come clean and understand what is holding you back. are you afraid that you might screw up this friendship?
2007-03-23 12:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the expression "get over yourself" mean anything to you?
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2007-03-23 11:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by abetterfate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah go for it!
2007-03-23 10:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by orderless1 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋