i get angry very soon .and always want to do wht i like wht should i do?

Question

among my bros n sis i got max attention by my parents since chilhood.therefore i have become very rude sometimes when the work work is not done in my favour

Answer 1

u r a very nice girl u have become a full brat!but dont b upset u can control ur emotions and later u will succed.best of luck!

Answer 2

You need to deal with your emotions, and if these emotions generate anger, you need some type of proffesional help or also a constructive way to vent your anger.
I agree your family may try to understand the way you are since they live with you, but to other people you may come across like a spoiled bratty kid..and although some pple may tell you you should not care about what others think of yourself....we also are human beings that do not live in the jungle or in the wild..and we have to learn to interact in positive normative ..ways with others around us. Getting extremely mad over all in Life will only make YOU and NO one else ..have big problems..I wish you the best of luck..First of all its a very positive and good step to acknowledge you have an issue with anger, now move to the next step ang get help or involved in a program with others like yourself...good luck!

Answer 3

You have taken a large step to correct this simply by recognizing you have a problem. You have recognized you cannot always have your way. This is a world of compromise allowing give and take when interacting with others. This personality type is not desirable after you are five years old and you need instruction in empathy and anger management. You were obviously spoiled rotten as a child, your parents did you no favors in allowing this behavior.

Answer 4

You need to deal with your anger. What cause that anger in the first place? Unless to learn to deal with your emotions well chances are people don't get along with you. This can ruin relationships you have with others around you including your loved ones. End of day you will feel miserable like you are feeling now. The world doesn't revolve around you alone. You need to talk your problems out to someone. Have you ever thought that with you behaving this way you may have hurt someone you care along the way? Whatever happened to that sweet little girl you were as a child? You need to understand that other's have their right of opinions. Listen and calm down as others speak to you because you never know if their opinion can help you. All you need right now is to go to your parents and your siblinga and hug each of them and say sorry and MEAN it That will make you feel better and a fresh start. Talk to them and tell them what is making you angry. And when they talk YOU WILL LISTEN what they have to say because after all they are FAMILY. You need them to help you be a better person as you grow older . Good luck.

Answer 5

I don't mean this in a bad way,but i think you were spoiled,and so used to getting your own way, that it could create problems for you now and in the future.Knowing this you could try to calm down and realise ,whenever some 1 says no to you, that you cant always get what you want.Not every 1 is the same as your parents,and cant always give you what you may demand.

Answer 6

You are reasonable, because you have been brought up under those circumstances.

Whenever you feel angrier - sing a song you like most., to walk a few yards for ten minutes, look around and light a incense stick or a light.

These practises will allow a gap between your emotions and logic. After some time u yourself will find laughing at yourself.

Answer 7

Self control is the answer, it is not easy , but can be achieved.

Congratulations for recognising the faults, this is the first step and you have taken it.

Count ten before speaking to any one.

Try this book, go to library and find it, may be on Internet,E-bay and Amazon.com

"How to make friends and Influence people". May have been translated also, was in English originally.

Trick is to listen to the people, keep the mouth shut.

Answer 8

You were probably spoiled by your parents and grew up to be a pain in the you know what. Once you enter the world of adults and start working, you'll have to tone down that part of you. You do want to be able to make a reasonable living, don't you?

Answer 9

there is nothing that cannot be changed.
it is possible for u to change,
If u become angry , just relax and think why u need to get angry, think well before u vent ur anger.
take a deep breath and accept the way things are.
actually in this world there is nothing to get angry of.
just cool u will become normal

Answer 10

hey u r like me in this field but i control my self by taking in a deep breath thinking of the thing i like and when my bros n sis say any thing to me i try not to answer them or else i am 2 rude some times.