have u watched the final destination movies?? well, i have this weird feeling that all of it may be true..i say this cos my apparently happy friend who had it all took her life for no reason at all.. according to her mom she's had three near death accidents the past couple of months.. i know this sounds mean but i think my friend was destined to die one way or other.. do u feel the same way??
2007-03-23 03:35:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nooooo waaaay. Its just a movie dont believe it.
Sorry i misread your Question. Things like that dont happen because of movies. Your friend probably had a lot going on deep within them. And your are probably still in shock. The Same thing happened a friend of mine who had a lot of problems i only found out about a long time later. Just give yourself a while to get over it.
2007-03-23 03:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by zed10096 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently, there must have been something else going on there. Was she on any meds, such as anti-depressants or anything else of that nature? I believe that we all have a destiny and that we were all put here for a reason. Something like this happened to my whole family last Sept. & it totally devasted us. Our good friends son committed suicide and he was only 13. It was my son's bestfriend also. We all beleive that he did not do this on purpose & that he just did this for attention. He seemed to be a happy kid but he did have issues & was on meds. He was fascinated with death though. I wish that i had the answers but to be honest, no one will ever know.
2007-03-23 03:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by mrsc93 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I haven't seen those movies, but I don't think anyone kills themselves for no reason. Perhaps your friend has things going on in her life that you did know about, perhaps she has suffered from depression for a long time. I'm curious what her mother meant about 3 near death accidents, and what she did about them. I would suggest to anyone that they learn to be a good listener, and let their friends know that they are always available to lend an ear. Sometimes having someone care enough to listen can make the difference between life and death.
2007-03-23 03:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren J 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm terribly sorry to hear of your friend; I
am a Christian and I do believe that there is a time for us all to go; but i wish she would have left it up to God to decide the "when".
When my fiancee died years ago, our best friend committed suicide right after the funeral service. It was horrible.
Suicide is a very bad idea; that said, some times there is a mental disorder that causes a person to not be able to deal with life, but thats all it is - when we speak about things like "it was her time to go", we really mean, like if she was in a car accident, or fell while mountain climbing or something, not suicide.
Suicide is when you do not allow the natural course of events to decide when its your time, and you intervene and take it upon yourself to choose the time. We are not to choose the time, because we really don't know for sure that it is the right time to go.
Not to mention that it is against the very law of God; to Him, you've just murdered one of his children, and He doesn't like that one bit - but with a mental problem that may have caused it, God will forgive it and take good care of her. Until such time as you die naturally or in an accident, do not ever take it upon yourself to choose the time.
You are to stay here along with the rest of us and endure. Its a horror to a family when suicide occurs. I was grieving terribly for years when my friend did it; A person doesn't seem to consider the pain they leave behind.
2007-03-23 03:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u watch 2 many movies
2007-03-23 03:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by Desi_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look hun i had my best friend die 4 years ago it is a horrible thing to go through i couldn't even face anyone! but wot your feeling or thinking could just be the shock! i thought all sorts of things when my best mate died but you have just got to look positive and think it it was her time to go! and she will always be in your heart! sorry to hear about it but dont go worrying yourself like that ok xXx
2007-03-23 03:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by xXkizXx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm a "Pentecostal Christian" and if I were you, I'd begin to pray and intercede, for his/her soul, right now, as we read!!! I have heard of Christian's doing this for people who have died, and prayed in interception style, for God to take their soul to heaven!! From "hell", so if I were you, either you pray, or get someone who's a Pentecostal Christian to intercede for his/her soul. Or call a church and ask them about what I just said, they'll know.. Look up "Pentecostal Churches" on Yahoo Yellow pages, and see if you can speak to the pastor, and if he/they can interceded for your friend who killed his/herself!!! For their soul to go too heaven, and not be still down in hell, because beleive me, I've heard too many testimonies of people who have killed theirselves, and been revived, and went through a "Hellish experience"!!! And or just people who weren't saved, and didn't know God who died and the doctor's brought them back, but in the meanwhile they went through all of the gnashing of teeth, demon's biting them and calling them names, and the horrible smell of sulfur, all of it, and couldn't get out of there fast enough, that they tried to remember catacism as a child to sing "Yes Jesus loves me" and all of a sudden the doctor's would revive them!!! So, Call for his/her soul, if you truely do care about them!!! Sorry to hear you lost your friend!! My sympathies to you & your family!! About the destined to die thing, my sister-in-law, also went through similar close to death experiences, and it was because she had "Terminal Cancer' but she was a "Believer" in Jesus, and said one time she was so close to dieing she saw Jesus..... She had such a sad life.... But now I know she's with her passed mother, she hasn't seen since she was a kid, you know, and their alll in heaven....Because her mother wanted to be a "NUN" before she married their father, who was so abusive to them kids after their mother died!! She ran away at 14 and lived such a tragic life until she passed at age 40... But she believed in Jesus, and prayed and talked to HIm, so you guys need too do the same thing for your friend instead of analyzing where she should be, or shouldn't....How sad is that... Call a church, and ask them to pray for her soul, you know, and give them her name...
2007-03-23 03:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Hmg♥Brd 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont let movies believe thinks are not real !!!!
2007-03-23 03:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by *live,laugh,love* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure. Maybe she was a REALLY REALLY good person and God wanted her in heaven early.
I am REALLY sorry about your friend. =(
2007-03-23 03:52:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
come on get real...if your friend really committed suicide today i doubt you would on yahoo broadcasting it shouldn't you be mourning?!
2007-03-23 03:41:49 · answer #10 · answered by va757 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋