Well both of my best friends dated for about 6 months then broke up because of two things, they wanted space and there was abuse involved. Thing is they did decided to be friends, but my guy friend wasn't really acting friendly to her. She was getting really upset so she got an appointment in our guidance office to get this straightend out, and decided she wanted me in there for support. Well things were getting cleared and were going good but when we went outta there he went back to his old ways. Point is he is so mad at her for some reason he won't even talk to her but every time i try to talk to him (not even about her about other things) he will just ignore me. I really don't want to get in the middle of it because i am now at risk of losing both of my best friends over this. What do you people think i should do?
2007-03-23 03:30:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Is the sex worth it?
2007-03-23 03:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you already got in the middle of what is going on between them two. If you were friends with both of them I don't understand why your friend would get upset with you for supporting her. But then again, what if he was going through something as well and that is why he was acting that way, maybe he became upset because he wanted you to be there for him. I don't know really. Give him time to cool off. And then speak to him, because the only way you will find out what is wrong with him is to ask him and talk to him. I'm sure you can still be friends with her. And if you sto talking to her, that will give her a wrong message because she might think that you stopped talking to her just to make your other friend happy, therefore, are you two really friends if you don't speak to her?
2007-03-23 03:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by BooBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u were best friends with both before they started dating then no he shouldn't be mad maybe he is just feeling some type of way right now give him some space maybe a few days then send him an email or something if he is still doing the silent treatment. Emails maybe a little impersonal for this situation but if he won't talk to you thats what i would do
2007-03-23 03:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jasmine B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your guy friend that he's being a jerk for putting you in the middle. He shouldn't be mad at you too because the two of them broke up. Tell him it's not fair to you.
2007-03-23 03:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he don't wanna talk to u screw him, give ur other friends the support and love she needs. because to him u have taken a side, and it her side u took, so he's madd at u, don't worry he'll snap out of it ad if he don't he wasn't a good friends to start with.
S. J. C
2007-03-23 03:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by S.J.C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beg someone to be your friend. If he's not talking to you, then wash your hands of him. You said there was abuse in his relationship...... he sounds like a bully and now you are letting him bully you. Lose the loser.
2007-03-23 03:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like it isn't even your issue
he shouldn't be mad if you and his ex are friends, he should be very afraid instead
two women sharing all the bad things he did, teaming up, with tons more insight that he has
especially if there was abuse, either one of them could design whatever hell they prefer for him, working together, if he stays sane and lives he will be lucky
2007-03-23 03:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give them both some space.
2007-03-23 03:39:26 · answer #8 · answered by va757 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋