we were all drinking at my house, one of my friends had gone to bed and his girlfirend was still drinking with us. she eventually passed out, but when my other friend had carried her into the bedroom he groped her in a few places and invited me to" cop a feel" i didn't. i havent told any of them what happened. my friends have been best friends since high school.
2007-03-23 03:06:15 · 14 answers · asked by Richard J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'd pull the guy aside and tell him that he knows what he did was not right, and that if he doesn't come clean, with your friend about his girlfriend, with what he did...you will! Giving him the chance to clean his own mess.
2007-03-23 03:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Billie A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't grope her and your friends with her boyfriend, then you should be the good friend and go off to tell him what happened. That's the best way to handle this, because if you hold it off and he later on finds out about it, he'll be ticked at you and everybody because you guys' did that. So if I was you I would tell him and if the other guys' decide to stop being your friends after that, then they aren't really your friends. Do what's best for you and for the friendship of that other guy.
2007-03-23 03:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by lxbeautiful.disasterxl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's a pickle. No easy answer to that. I guess alchohol was involved so your friend used very poor judgement. He technically did break the law too. I guess ask yourself if he would do it if he was sober. Is you think so, then talk to the friend whos girlfriend it was. If not, just talk to your friend who did the groping and tell him you thought that was pretty messed up. Of course, he may not remember and then feel bad about it.
2007-03-23 03:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was very drunk, as you said and probably feels really stupid and embarrassed today. It was a bad thing to do on her part, but she was under the influence and emotions are obviously heightened so i'd say to let it pass this time and talk to her about it because she might be some underlying feelings for you and if she does remind her that she IS with your best mate. If this happens again then tell your friend... but i would keep it quiet this time.
2016-03-15 21:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Teresa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the boy friend. That is terrible and it sure sounds like this guy has done this before and probably more. What a terrible person. What did the guy say about it when you said you didnt want to touch her??
Dont drink with him anymore he sounds like trouble and has the good sense of a flea.
2007-03-23 03:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by Peg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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My friend groped my other friends girlfriend when she had passed out. who do i tell what?
we were all drinking at my house, one of my friends had gone to bed and his girlfirend was still drinking with us. she eventually passed out, but when my other friend had carried her into the bedroom he groped her in a few places and invited me to" cop a feel" i didn't. i havent told...
2015-08-02 01:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! The right thing to do is tell the guy and let him handle it the way he wants to. He DID NOT have any right to touch her like that and you shouldn't have to carry around that horrible secret. They have a right to know what this guy is really like! What kind of person does that to his best friends GF?
2007-03-23 03:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by justagirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think you should tell her and confront the "friend" who terribly did this horrible thing to this poor girl.
It is criminal and total disrepect and if I was her boyfriend, he wouldn't be around to see tomorrow........
2007-03-23 04:06:18 · answer #8 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should have copped a feel aswell, peer pressure is hard sometimes, but if you dont do it you wont be part of the 'gang' anymore, bros before hoes, thats what we always say, you should have turkey slapped her
2007-03-23 03:32:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the young lady was violated by someone she trusted she deserves to know....you should have told them the next day!!
2007-03-23 03:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by va757 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋