Actually,i have always tried to be perfect wheter its in studies in manners or in looks.i find myself better but cant fufill my requirements.plz suggest any way to cure this!
2007-03-23 03:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by mona 2 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Hey don't worry, just remain calm. You study for just a short span of time but whatever you study do it sincerely. You can even take abreak when you fell bbored and refresh yourself by reading some kind of a novel or by taking a round outside. It may help you a lot in your efforts to study. You will definitely achieve success in your ambition by using this method for studying!
2007-03-23 03:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by ameya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your dilemma seems familiar with mine. In fact, i'm also a perfectionist.
But that was once before. Until came to an extend, I realize that no man even how capable we are (in anything) can accomplish everything.
You know why? (If really our dilemmas' are the same) then, you must be having some sort of unexplainable gut which prevents you to do other things whenever you have completed a task.
What happened to me? I lost focus and tend to lose in anything I do, although I extremely think that "I CAN DO IT! BUT WHY I FELT LIKE I CAN'T DO IT?" - some thing like that.
I realized that it is something to do wit our destiny. Whenever we felt like we can't do it although we CAN indeed DO it, it gives the meaning that our destiny is not meant to be so. It's like a sign of God, wanted to show his Perfection whereas we, the human beings ain't perfect at all, although we are powerful in any fields of life.
So, just be yourself. Give and take. Don't push too hard on yourself, or you'll be suffered for the rest of your life.
2007-03-23 03:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by nickris.user_1.4.6.8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try to impress people all the time. Quietly practice what is good for a student of your age.
Take care to see that you dont do anything wrong. Even if everyone around you is indulged in a wrong practice, you firmy stick to your principles. All will appreciate you for this.
2007-03-23 05:27:37 · answer #3 · answered by Maliha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please remember nobody is perfect and total perfection is impossible so don't kill yourself. If you are already what you wanted to be, its only a matter of judgement by other people for nobody is a judge for himself. Further you are supposed to fulfil others requirements and that's for what you, your personality and qualities stand good. You are required to understand this aspect for once and always.
2007-03-23 04:09:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mahesh R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you are not satisfied, same problem was with me and i did as under:
1. i never care what people say i only listen my heart
2. i always imagine and go far away in imagination and make myself happy and i also share that imagination with my friend and we laugh
3. why not i'm not happy but i'll make myself happy concentrating on humanity
4. look not for your perfection but try to analyse other's mistakes
5. try to learn psychology of people it will help you a lot
2007-03-23 04:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by zephyr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u r a very nice girl and answer me very nicely so yeah u should concentrate more in ur studies and need loads of practice coz practice makes a man perfect.
2007-03-23 05:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by mobi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel You are better
Just relax and be cool
Improve the performance when you feel like
But ... Dont give up the tempo
Feel free and Feel Happy .......
It will improve your performance ...................
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2007-03-23 03:48:26 · answer #7 · answered by surez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start being humble , practice humility , if you dont know what humility is look it up
2007-03-23 03:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by its me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u can easily achieve this by YOGA & MEDITATION.
VASUDEVAREDDY
www.vasutatiparthi.blogspot.cm
2007-03-23 03:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by vasu devareddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋