Someone once said "I hate being alone, but I love to be myself" I dont really remember where i got that quote from anymore..it was a while ago..but i do remember thinking that it described someone that I know.. perfectly.
Say that a girl somehow feels.. and has always felt more comfortable when she’s on her on. Even though she believes in love, and think its one of the most beautiful things that there are in life, even though she’s always felt like that kind of love is really just not for her. And she knows from experience that being in love can make a person feel so happy in the most extraordinary way...however, even though she feels happy, she at the same time has always got this feeling like..it cant last and that its just a matter of time till everything comes crashing down...and sometimes she just doesn’t feel like she deserves to be this happy.
Could those just be signs to her from her own mind reminding her that she’s just not made for being in love?
2007-03-23 03:02:09 · 16 answers · asked by Jaded 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
And she’s not sad or unhappy when she’s alone, she just feels the most like herself then..its hard to explain, its like her element. Is that just pure insanity? Or does she just have a cold heart that somehow just doesn’t want to let herself truly love someone and for someone to truely love her back?
2007-03-23 03:02:43 · update #1
Oh i know the quote is just a bunch of words. I was just using that as an example of how she feels. My real questions really just , if anyone knew why she feels this way?
2007-03-23 03:09:03 · update #2
I can understand how she feels because I feel that way myself. The only time I felt different was when I was married because he was like a part of me. I could still be myself when I was with him (12 years). I never felt the same with anyone else since, maybe close, but not exactly right. So I knew it wouldn't last. Hubby and I should never have divorced, but things changed when he changed jobs and got a different (controlling) attitude. Maybe she knows it is not exactly right for her with you.
2007-03-23 03:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not insanity at all, there are all forms of love and being by yourself is the right to autonomy, perhaps she has tried to be with a mate at different points and has just decided that rather then being in a bad thing it is better to be by herself and has accepted that. One wonders why women will stay in abusive relationships and get the crap beat out of them or give dudes everything that they have so that they will stay with them. Some women don't want to be one of them women and have high expectations of themselves and their partners to be the best that they can on their own and together. And if she falls in love with someone that she knows can't really be hers that is safe too, because she can love which is a good feeling and yet she feels safe too. No I don't think it is insane, I think it takes more then just saying one loves another they must eventually show it in one way or another, therein is what tells if it is possible for it to be a together all the time thing or not and it has to have mutual respect. Perhaps she doesn't want a lot of crap in her life, but she does want to care about and be cared about. Does that make sense? Perhaps she wants sex, it is not only a dude that can only want sex from another.
2007-03-23 10:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a hard feeling to describe let alone figure out. Love is all kinds of feelings meshed up into one big ball of confusion. It is not until you pull all the pieces apart that you know what true love is.
This girl must first find something that we have all forgotten to remember, That we are all human beings and need to feel the embrace of another at some point in our lives. Tell her this. If you can't sit back and look at yourself and know what kind of person you are, you will never know what kind of person you wish to be with. No, she is made for love, she just needs to translate her feelings so she knows what true love is.
2007-03-23 10:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by Charles P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i see where you are coming from i enjoy but alone in my own little world, but on the other i need my companion at times to be around me not under me . I am an isolated person i am the happiest when I am alone doing what I want to do and minding my own business but many say that I am selfish which I believe so in so many ways
2007-03-23 10:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by KATRINA W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if you hate being alone its ok u will grow into it but dont try to change yours ways because sum stuck up slob is dissin you u are a beautiful person ok and regardless of wat anyone thinks you should feel the same way about yourself. people dont make you you do and it all depends on how you see yourself not anyone else people are so judge mental these days and you have to learn how to put that behind you and say forget them cuz believe it or not they dog u cuz they have their own issues!
2007-03-23 10:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by keke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how she feel it's just her body and mind telling her don't fall in love yet wait til she's ready. When she's ready to be in love she will know believe me she will it's just the matter of time
2007-03-23 10:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by mndstaley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are words.. If those are told too many times it loses it effect.
2007-03-23 10:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is made for not being loved...she has to go back out there and find her love
2007-03-23 10:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that feeling dude. Hang in there.
2007-03-23 10:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by SomeGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are only words
2007-03-23 10:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Bertie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋