why? shouldn't we do something other than sit by and watch this happen. What do I do? I have two boys. Line up 6 pregnant women and one of thier kids will be molested? (*&*(&((*&(*()^&%^$%^$
2007-03-23 02:53:16 · 8 answers · asked by bhbghgjbvmnbncvb 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
http://www.familywatchdog.us/ShowNameList.asp
2007-03-23 03:01:16 · update #1
this is the site that says that http://www.familywatchdog.us/aboutus.asp
2007-03-23 03:02:26 · update #2
I believe it. I was molested years ago, and finally went to the police in December. Since then, some people have figured out that it was me and they tell me that it happened to them too when they were younger.
There is one child molester per square foot of America. Obvisously there are unlived in areas in the desert and Alaska, so imagine the concentrated numbers of child molesters living in every town. It's ridiculous.
My parents really helped to stop what was happening at the time because they picked up the signs and didn't let us visit as often. You should talk to your boys about their friends parents, their cousins, aunts and any adult. My parents found out we would sit on his lap to play video games. See if they want to go back or mention special treatment. Look for 'bribes' and adults giving toys or food, HE used to give me jewelry. Also, if kids cry about going to the babysitter, or try to resist, try to find out why and get a different babysitter anyways. When trying to find a babysitter, only trust recomendations from people you know, not just coworkers or clients. Then talk to children who have had the babysitter and observe their behavior and how they talk about the babysitter.
2007-03-23 12:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by epitome of innocence 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes thats what a study said i read that but don't remember where really think about it what can you do besides don't let your children out of your site ever
The only thing i wonder is?--------
Are they basing their study on sex offenders because some of them are 18 year old boys and 16 or 17 year old girls and they both were willing parties the parents were the ones to press charges
i think they should list this on the case if this is what happened ----------
but you would think the safest place of a child would be a church and well thats not so any more either --------
i really think that there should be a longer jail term for this a person that is barely over the legal limit for a dui gets more jail time than some one who molests their own children
most of them only get probation or 6months and then probation---------
them 18 year old bos that were sleeping with their girl friends where the parents were not happy about it are still being watched and the ones that raped small children are not being watch this is for our site any way you might find a few that are still being watched-------
but not many i went through and compared them
2007-03-23 03:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by country-girl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to find an age-appropriate way to explain the situation to your children. Make sure they know they "own" their bodies and have rights to privacy. Make sure they understand what a "stranger" is. Telling the to avoid strangers is not enough because most kids think a "stranger" is a guy in dark clothes or something else specific. Most important: Make sure they understand the things molesters may tell them to coerce them into submission, and make sure they know they must ALWAYS tell someone; you, a teacher, a relative. Molesters often tell kids they will hurt them or a family member if they tell. Make sure they know it is always best to tell, and they won't get in trouble for telling on a criminal.
2007-03-23 03:01:18 · answer #3 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont have an answer for you, but I'm dying to hear what your answer is!
Really! What do we do?
My guess, just be great parents and pray to God that we dont let those bad people into the lives of your children.
Aren't most kids molested by someone they know. A close family friend or relative?
If you have a feeling about someone, keep your kids away from them, and them away from your kids!
2007-03-23 02:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Pixie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In this dangerous, closed minded world we have forgotten a basic issue. Curiosity. If you really love them talk, teach, let them understand what is going on with their hormones, their curiosities, their growing bodies. Then they will know when a situation or confrontation with another individual is right or wrong. They will also be able to communicate better with you if there is something wrong. As adults they will be less likely continue the offense and someday we may have a resolution.
2007-03-23 03:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ray2play 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nonsense. This is not true. These numbers have been shown to be false... seriously, look around your circle of friends and family and tell me that you believe those numbers? When it happens it is a tragic thing, and it happens too much, but not nearly that much.
Keep your kids away from priests and that will erase at least half the risk.
2007-03-23 02:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I believe much of this is an exaggeration and self-serving
"Hype" .
I lost my virginity at age 14 in a 3 month long summer affair
with a wonderful, loving, tender, caring sexy 34 yr. old woman.
I was the happiest boy in town. Now many years later, I still
have fond memories of this incredible woman...Of course now
she would be thrown into jail for 10 yrs. and I would go down
as a molestation statistic....Do gooders have run amuk....
2007-03-23 03:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
where did you get this information from?
2007-03-23 02:55:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋