i have a friend who interferes between me nd my best friend.a lot.she is arrogant,never accepts her mistakes and is jealous of me nd my best friends.we three dislike her.but still i treat her k.i am not rude to her at all though she is at times.but sometimes she is very nice.trying to help me or it appears so but she is known to have said sth bad about me to others.Tell me is it ok on my part to treat her this way?should i break off or should i ignore the whole thing and be with her even if she continues being nosy?my best friends too dislike her.and what if she still interferes?what can i do?
please answer all my q's
2007-03-23 02:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by lost... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She sounds like trouble. I would cut her off. Just tell her nicely that you don't appreciate her meddling and that you don't want to hang out with her. When she tries to be nice to you, tell her you're not interested. At some point she'll find someone else to manipulate. What are you getting out of this except misery? Best to cut the fat and concentrate on your good friends and develop stronger bonds with the people you like and get along with. Life is too short to deal with that kind of b.s.
2007-03-23 02:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by bitsonews 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make her know you three don't like her interfering... if she understands well and good... But if she still continue with the same its better that you ignore what she does... But do not ignore her completely..... Slowly you ignore her... One or the other day she will correct herself or stops disturbing you... You have to be pateint..... Let us hope she will be ok soon... and your friend circle have nice 4 people together all the time...
I would like tell you one more thing that she might be feeling that she is getting ignored by you....... So she might trying to get your attention..... Give her some consideration.....
Let us see will this help you out.....
Have a nice day............
2007-03-24 10:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by sumanth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a forum with your friend.. Tell your friend all the things you want to tell her. Say anything you want - what you like about her and what you don't. However, you must emphasize to what pisses you off. You also have to frankly tell her that she has her limits. A good and real friend can understand that. Just make sure to approach her gently. Be frank but not blunt because she might be troubled with something and might just want attention.
2007-03-23 09:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by zira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't be rude to her, but if you (not your friends) feel she is too nosy about YOUR affairs, feel free to just tell her that you don't want to discuss this or that with her..There is a saying when construction is on a roadway :
"Proceed with caution" I suggest you do the same in your friendship with her...
2007-03-23 09:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you have it all figured out but What I really want to know is She all that more prettier than you and your friends?
Truth hurts. Sometimes we make waves when there is none just to be the center of attention. Wonder who you guys will pick on next?
2007-03-23 09:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should first ask urself. Do u ignore all her deeds just bcoz its ur nature or its because of her love in ur heart if it is ur nature to ignore n compromise then i suggest u to break up bcoz in dis case it is not a two sided relationship n frendship should always be two sided. But if it is ur love for her who convince urself not to be rude then do not break bcoz love can be one sided. disscuss wid her what u think of her n ask her not to be soo possesive.
2007-03-23 09:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by fiza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her the way she treats you, so she'll know how it feels, but don't go overboard coz you can cause a lot of pain and heartache. But still she shouldn't be the way she is with you.
2007-03-23 09:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by Evertongrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can treat her like one of ur simple friend. dont discuss anything about others. and dont encourage her when she tells about others let ur friends too do this. By this if she changes her attitude, she may turn up as a good friend of urs right?
2007-03-24 16:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her know how she is being. If you don't want to hang out with her I would tell her that too. If she still tries to interfere, just walk away.
be cool...
2007-03-23 09:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever good things you want to tell about her, do not keep it within yourself but talk it aloud in front of many. That Will be real appreciation.
Whatever ill feelings you have with her can be resolved in you once talk to her privately and explain your self instead of seeking her explanation. You be good and do good to her she will be one your side and in one to one equation.
2007-03-23 12:14:16 · answer #10 · answered by marsh man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋