I resently realized that I'm not really into gay sex. What I like is the solo act while being watched by one or more guys? no touch or feel is involved; in fact, it's a turn off.
Am I gay?
2007-03-23 02:29:07 · 16 answers · asked by daniel t 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
duuuude that's hot!
2007-03-23 02:35:23 · answer #1 · answered by grand_theft_cereal 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
The question should really be directed to a professional. (I just want to let you know that first thing) I have only had a brief study in this. It is very common for men that masturbate often get comfortable with the self-gratification. When they are confronted with others in the situation the man realize that the other person does not give the pleasure in the same time and way that the man has been doing himself. With that said, I don’t know your situation. As a suggestion, think about what excites you in a sexual manner the thought of a man or a woman or both. Labeling yourself gay, bi-, or straight is not fair to yourself because remember your sexual endeavors are only a small portion of your life. Many people concentrate on this aspect of life but many different factors make up a person. Family, friends, hobbies, work, education, and music are just a few and none of which are direct correlation to your desires sexually.
2007-03-23 10:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Miko 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No honey, you just like to be watched while having sex instead of actually watching it. It's common and has even got a name. Why else do you think guys stare at the guy while watching a pornography instead of the girl, most of the time?. Not because they are gay (which is, by the way, a life style and not something you are born with; so you can be any given thing any time, so long as you decided too) but because it's only when they watch the guy, and relate to his feeling as guys themselves, they can actually get turned on. I think the easiest way to know if you are or not gay is to try to imagine your "dream life" (not while you are turned on, that is!!!!). If, however unlikely it feels, it involves a woman who looks like either Nicole Kidman, Angelina Jolie or Liv Tylor, you definately are straight; aiming just a little higher. There was a time in which i was so tired of my relationship with men that i thought i've convinced myself into becoming a lesbian. But whenever i tried to think of actually living with a girl (this isn't when i'm lonely or wanting to have sex) something in me wants to crack up big time; not so much as being revolted (that happens when i see a cute guy and start to get feverish); but i just want to laugh and laugh because it's ridiculous; no girl can make me feel the way a guy's "look" would, whatever she does to me.
Final advice, don't believe everything people tell you, neither in here, nor there. Listen to what YOU have to say deep into the night, when you need no arm to hold you, or fears/insecurities to threaten your existence. THAT is what you are. Good luck!
2007-03-23 10:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by Biqo 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Don't listen to these people. Nothing is wrong with you. There is no right or wrong in adult, consensual sex (animal and child abuse is wrong).
Sex is what you make it. Everyone has their fetishes. It can be with either sex too.
If what you mentioned above is what you like than enjoy it. People usually don't admit it, but I bet you'd have no problem finding others who are into the same thing.
Never feel confused about sex. You tried something so now you can eliminate it and continue your adventure!
Good luck; and remember, no kids or animals-and always be safe (condoms)!
2007-03-23 10:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are still gay - you just get your pleasures from something other than one on one sex. Its cool- everyone is not the same that is what makes this a great place to live! Enjoy yourself and you will be able to find guys that will respect this and watch you off.
2007-03-23 10:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My opinion is that you aren`t gay or bi, but you are an exhibitionist, not a bad thing except you will need to be very careful to not get busted for things like indecent exposure, or things of that nature.
2007-03-23 09:58:59 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Exhibitionist with intimacy issues. I can't tell your orientation for certain, but it's likely that you are in fact gay.
2007-03-23 09:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Could be you're just an exhibitionist - but what are you thinking about as you put on the show. That may be your answer.
And I agree with "chouchou h" regardless of what you are it's hot!!!
2007-03-23 09:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by ImUrMan 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I have a friend who is very much like you. He is straight, but is a little bi curious, which is a possibility for you
2007-03-23 10:00:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like voyeurism to me.
2007-03-23 10:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by jasgallo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say you are very confused and centering your life on sex. Not normal.
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2007-03-23 10:04:03 · answer #11 · answered by km 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋