hi ive got this stupid problem. i dunno y but whenever my roomie talks to a girl in our hostel whom i dont actually like i feel kinda strange and angry. and she's a very good frend of hers. i dunno if she likes her more than me as a frend but seems so usually. i kno its stupid but cudnt help ask. thanx
2007-03-23 02:14:35 · 4 answers · asked by e t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're jealous, afraid of losing your friend, perhaps afraid of being alone? The good news is that we're only jealous and possessive of things we value (so you truly value your friendships)! The bad news is that jealous/possessive behavior can ruin a friendship, so you need to tread lightly.
You can work on your own insecurities, by talking with friends or a counselor, or just some firm applications of willpower. What you can never do is change anyone else -- your feelings are yours, and only you can work on them.
2007-03-23 02:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you can never and I mean never change someone else...they have to choose to change their own behavior.
Second, you should let your roomie know how you feel about the situation.
Third, I think we should always move forward in changing ourselves, that's how we grow as a person.
be cool...
2007-03-23 09:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop reposting. You don't change yourself or others. You just have to deal with the circumstances or take yourself out of the equation.
2007-03-23 09:20:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Tori ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealous. Your friend will end up not liking you at all if this is your type of trait. If you want to treat your friend like she deserves..respect her by respecting her decisions,friends,company etc. I assume she does this for you too!
2007-03-23 09:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋