This girl was my friend's friend in middle school. She never liked me that much, but she was friends with my two friends. If i make a comment about anything (not even a mean comment) she'll say something to make me feel bad about what i said. And i once went long distance running and i wasn't very good and she told me i was bad at long distance. I KNOW THAT, but she doesn't even talk to me and she points it out to me. If i wave at her, she just looks away. The only two times she really talked to me was to ask where i downloaded videos and asked if i took painting lessons cause i had a nice painting. I feel like she really hates me, but i never did anything to her.
2007-03-23 02:10:09 · 14 answers · asked by random 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Since I don't know the other girl that well it's rather hard for me to make judgement 'cos, like you, I don't know her side of the story. From what you said, though, I can safely deduct that this is a matter of friend-jealousy. Maybe you're new in their circle? If so, this girl may have a hard time getting along with "new" people.
I think it would really help if you took some time to have a straight talk with this girl. Let her know how you feel about her attitude towards you, and then ask her why the cold treatment.
2007-03-23 02:24:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Ghost 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people are real jerks. Some people have a bad history that causes them to have some social issues. Maybe there was some bad family history and so she is acting out towards you because you accept it.
Sometimes it can be you. You may not be able to control it because it may be something like your voice or the way you look. You may make facial expressions that you're not aware of and your friends understand it, but she may not.
2007-03-23 09:15:00 · answer #2 · answered by aplusjimages 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me, I don't know what I did to her, she was my friends, friend, she told me she didn't like me and avoided talking to me. She was mean. After being around her in her classes for at least a year or 2, she gave up on hating me. In fact, we are now aquaintinces, and is in my class right now, so give it time, try to accept as much bull as you can from her, and then when you can't take anymore, tell her about your frustration, and ask her why she hates you, be kind about it though
2007-03-23 09:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by XgothXminsterXchildX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably did something to/with her friend that she later was told about. This sounds similar to when my friend who is an exchange student was being touched in innappropriate places by her host brother. She told me but I had to swear not to tell or else shed be sent back to Japan. So everytime I see the guy I cant help but act like I dont like him.
So the stories kind of line up in maybe that girl that hates you heard a story about you. Did you do anything to the other girl to make her mad?
2007-03-23 09:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by ridinapinto 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um, well it could be classic. She could like you? Never know but uh, thats a really hard situation. Its strange that she would go out of her way to pick on you or try to put you down and hurt you. Either she's just plain rude, her friend && your friend might have gotten mad at you once and told her which made her not like you, or she likes you. I personally think shes a wack job. Good luck.
2007-03-23 09:14:52 · answer #5 · answered by Hello there. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she hates herself. Sounds like she has a need to put you down so she can feel better about herself. Just ignore her. Who are your wacky friends that are friends with her. I certainly wouldn't choose her as a friend.
And just so you know - ANYBODY who does long distance running - good or "bad" - is GREAT - in my book!!
2007-03-23 09:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by liddabet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once you are grown you will realize that what is wrong with that girl has nothing to do with you.
People who are negative and mean usually have some pretty yuckky issues with themselves or their families.
Stop worrying about her and make yourself lots a good friends that aren't mean.
2007-03-23 09:15:32 · answer #7 · answered by kimpetuous 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it with your 2 friends and ask them if they know anything regarding the matter. If you can't do this, choose a day which she will be nasty to you and confront her in front of your common friends.
May be she is jealous of you, being friend with her friends and she sees you as a threat to her relationship with them.
2007-03-23 09:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by maran 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol. Girls are like that , dont even try understanding them.
Not worth it pal, move on
Do something nice to her and it will change the way she sees you.
Like get her a chocolate , treat her to ice cream etc.
2007-03-23 09:14:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible that she's just insecure about herself and makes you feel bad about yourself to make herself feel better. If she does hate you, well then she's the only one who can answer that question.
2007-03-23 09:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋