years ago i had a few babies to a few black chicks back in da hood. i havent been able to get a decent job in a long time so i cant suport them now and they are on assistance. i want to start over and move out of the ghetto. i am getting new friends, i only date white girls now and i am thinking bout moving out west...maybe arizona or sumthin. i dont like dat ghetto lifestyle anymore, i dont like my babies mothers anymore and i cant support my children. wouldnt it be better if i left and got a job and sent them some money every few months when i could? i am not being a good father so why not leave and try to make something of myself? there is nothin for me here now and i dream about going out west and hangin out where people dont no nuthing bout me. i would call and send money when i could. isnt this better then staying here without a job?
2007-03-23 02:09:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i dont no fo sure but i heard a friend say they could help me get a job there in arizona with construction or sumthin that pays decent. i cant get a decent job like dat here in the ghetto
2007-03-23 02:11:02 · update #1
peachez, if you dont no the ghetto then you dont understand. maybe they arent like you. but if i dont like them and have no job then why should i stay? i think it would be better to send my kidz money than be here and do nuthin cause i am a garbage man or sumthin
2007-03-23 02:17:57 · update #2
i think you should go and better yourself if that is what you want to do, just like you say man, you ain't getting ahead where you at now, you ain't doing things right where you at now, so why not start over and better yourself somewhere else, and it ain't like you running away from you rproblems, you wanna make things right and you wanna keep seporting as much as you can, don't matter where you at to do that babes, go for it, you got my blessin and i am a baby momma all the way over seas witha baby daddy in the US ( he ain't doing **** but that a different story hahahaha) do your thing babe, you will regret it if you dont later on in life if you won't do so, go for it.
good luck
2007-03-24 04:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by dutchcutie68 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no. don't ignore your seeds, yo. you need to set a good example for your children. how many kids do you have anyway? if you're gonna move make sure you at least provide for them. Baby mommas, yeah they can be a problem. But that or your "ghetto lifestyle" shouldn't stop you from being a father to your children. You can't just run away from your problems they're still gonna be there no matter what.
my mom raised me and my 5 brothers BY HERSELF!!! with nobody's help. and i don't know if you know this or not but children without fathers have a harder time dealing with life. trust me, i'm one of them. anti-depressants and therapy is not cute.
SO BE A MAN ABOUT YOURS & LIKE THE FIRST GIRL SAID GET A DAMN VASCETOMY!!!!
i hope you make the right decision.
2007-03-23 12:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by ♥sista 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG rich you can screw up a child by not being in there life thats wrong and jus to go behind some white women even wronger. never lived in the "hood" so don't know but don't you think your being a little harsh on black women i mean i'm a black women i'm not ignorant or any of that bull **** you said but i am taken though!lol my mans great loves me and his race(he ain't black though hes white)anywayz stay and be a father figure to your kids.
At least take your kids with you
2007-03-23 09:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Peachez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO THE WORLD A FAVOR AND GET A VASECTOMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 09:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Angela C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋