I have lived alone for many years and now get lonely . I am 23 and am unsure about sharing with others, trusting and allowing others into my personal space. Im use to my own domain . Should i go on being lonely for others to take advantage of me, knowing i am alone, or should i take a chance, knowing, this could result in many years for the rest of my life being volunerable???
Also many people in australia are interested in share accomadation for short term only
-IE. if they are form other countries ( working visas ,backpackers,loo etc.I am just looking for something a little more stable). I find this very annoying as i am definatly looking for something more long term .
I am doing this out of necessity not choice and finding all of this hard to cope with.
its easy for people to say 'kick her to the kerb' but its not so easy when moving arrangements,costs and finding someone compatable to move in with is a hard chore emotionally espec. whan u r on the otha end of it all.
2007-03-23 01:21:19 · 5 answers · asked by white_angel_amy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
That particular set up is not common here in the U.S. People share rent, but usually they are already friends. Some people who live in expensive, high rent areas like New York city find roommates which they may not have known before.
Myself, I couldn't share my space unless I absolutely was forces to. Then you do what you have to do. If it were just for lonliness, I think I'd try to find a neighbor to befriend or join a club or something else.
2007-03-23 01:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy finding the perfect roommate. You give up a lot of your personal space and have less privacy. If you can get by without it I would not do it.
2007-03-23 01:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Susan. I have had roommates for years. It was horrible, some of them are nasty, and they have no regards for your things. They use your stuff like if they are your family then they leave it all over the place. They don't clean up after themselves and you become their maid. Don't do it.
2007-03-23 01:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a roommate....if you can do it financially do it ..no one can live with anyone without problems...if you are lonely go out and join a hiking club or something....
2007-03-23 01:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi check out this cool new website
http://www.mydoing.com try it and invite all of your friends
2007-03-23 01:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by estonpillay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋