Ok when i was growing up i always said that when i turned 18 i was moving out of my house(and i did). She's still 17 and lives with her mom. she came over to my new house a few times an i offer her to stay the night or just hang out. Now she wont call, show up, she did not even notice i deleted her off my myspace. I seen her yesterday at her school, and she walked by me without even saying hi or anything till i said hey how have you been? s she said fine and continued to walk . she also goes to her one friends house every weekend but yet she said she can't fine a way to my house witch is only like 14 blocks away. Her friend lives in a whole difrent city and its takes a car to get there, but she's there... so why don't we talk anymore? I have always had her back, she was also there for me when my mom died but why is she not there?
2007-03-23 01:16:04 · 5 answers · asked by twistedinlime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's probably just that she is having a hard time seeing that you have moved on and grown up without her. You are a few steps ahead and she needs to catch up. She will come around.
2007-03-23 01:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like something upset her and she isn't dealing with it. Ask to meet with her so you guys can try to sort this out. If she agrees fine -- if not, there is nothing you can do.
You moved out at a very young age and not everyone is ready -- I'd say most young people aren't ready to move out at your age.
Understand that every relationship you have is for a season, a reason, or a lifetime. Think about that for a moment because it really is true.
Life happens and we move on to different things, feel about people in different ways, etc. I know it can hurt since you've been friends for so long, but true friends will be there no matter what. You may loose contact or closeness for awhile, but if you are lifetime friends, you will find a way to reconnect at a later time.
Try not to take things like this to personal. If you did something wrong in the relationship and can correct it -- great, but if she doesn't want to continue the friendship let her move on. You will make new friends.
2007-03-23 08:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by JusMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people get kind of jealous at the thought of their friends moving out and getting their own place before them. I think she's just a little bit jealous and need some time to think about who her true friend is but just give her a little more time to grow up as you have and hopefully she'll come around and tell you the truth about why she's been acting the way she has. Good Luck!
2007-03-23 08:25:28 · answer #3 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here. Lost a friend of 5 years. I understood it might have been jealousy of situations or I cud have hurt her in some way. But when I went to reciprocate she still treats me as a stranger. Tough to move on but we have to THIS IS LIFE. And in case God has got that extra grace he will give us back our friends.
Take care.....
2007-03-23 08:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by winterblossom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet she did notice that you deleted her from Myspace and is very hurt! Which is why she's ignoring you. What do you want her to say: Thank you for deleting me?
I'd invite her around again, and try to talk.
2007-03-23 08:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋